This is definitely an odd case. I have a feeling that there is a lot more information that the public isn't privy to about who LR may have been. It would have been nice is NamUs had some of the info that you've all managed to track down (LR's "maiden" name, the years she was in certain states, when she assumed the identity, etc.) because it might trigger some long lost memory for someone.
Before reading that there was a divorce in the works, I was struck by the obituary and how sparse it was - a young mother passes away unexpectedly and it didn't have a lot information about her and her accomplishments. Usually when I see these kids of obits they talk about hobbies, interests, etc. My first thought was that it was written by someone who was estranged from her or really didn't know her that well. And, of course, that she was only survived by her daughter and the family she married into.
Let's not forget that we don't know for sure that LR intentionally planned a false identity. She could have been a victim of a kidnapping and given the identity when she was much younger. Applying for the SS when she was 18 might just mean that no one ever matched her with one when she was younger, and as an adult when she moved on with her life she applied for her own so that she could start to work, take classes in college, etc. I've read through the threads, but does anyone know what the process was to apply for a SS# as an adult in the late 80s? What kind of documentation was needed? if she had legitimate identification and a SSN assigned to that ID, then I wonder how it ever came out that she was using an alias? Maybe she admitted to it or maybe there were people around her who knew all along and knew the reasons why she chose to do so.
There are just too many variables that we don't know. The Scottsdale and DOB bit intrigues me, because it was stated in the obit, which makes me think that it was information that she admitted to being true at one point to her husband or whomever supplied the obituary info. Then again, if the fact that she was using an alias came to light after she died, then that may all be false.
If I understand their website correctly, Arizona is a closed records state, but I would be curious to know if there was a LEK ("maiden name") born on that date in Scottsdale who passed away prior to 1969 without being assigned a SSN.
Also, I'm confusing myself in searches by running into another LR in the same town. How big is Longview? Would they have known each other? Not sure if it would even matter, just a weird coincidence.