I don't understand it either. If you don't want your kid...fine. Give it away to someone who DOES want it. God knows there are MANY who would just die to have a child and they can't.I am curious about this phenomenon-I mean the original parent has to have some kind of inclination towards cruelty-it's as almost as if the boyfriend or SO gives the parent permission to mistreat their child as well. In the case of Riley Sawyer, she had been loved and cared for until her mother left Riley's grandparents house. Then out of the view of other family members, she was tortured and beaten to death. What gives?