That was me that started the other thread. This happened right around the corner from me. He was also the lead singer in a local band here called Duburbia. When I used to bartend they would play the bar all the time. ( the myspace page for the band he was in is
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=2858199) From what people are saying that are close to them is that the mother is the one to blame. She took sleeping pills 20 minutes before and then put the baby in the tub, and that she was not trilled to be a mother at all.
His son, brother and ex wife all been posting on the topix about this
http://www.topix.net/forum/source/wavy/TCSDFSA4LGK6J6EF1
And another topix where some people are posting, but it does not seem like this one has to many close to them at this one
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/norfolk-va/T2LGOTRFF26T4VMUB