IMHO, the account of JS being told about MS grave condition does not seem true to form.
Of course, I'm sure each facility and case may handle things differently. Unfortunately, in my experience, both parents were given the information together. They presented test results and pertinent medical information including the steps for the "brain dead" determination.
At that time, they discuss organ donations. IMO, MS would have been an excellent donor. I don't believe, at any given time, one parent would be more informed than the other.
Furthermore, unless there was an immediate medical change, they would not have disseminated information in (nearly) the middle of the night.
It would be most illuminating to find out WHEN precisely Max's parents were informed about his "grave condition" and "grim, irrecoverable prognosis".
Let’s go over the objective, impartial, unbiased evidence on WHEN Max was likely declared “braindead” vs. Dina’s statements that she did not know until Friday (FOUR days after Max suffered his braindead injury on Monday).
1) Darn, if we only had those Medical Records on Max from the hospital, we can find out WHEN and WHAT exactly the doctors had said to Max's parents about Max's condition immediately upon Max entering the hospital on Monday;
2) Darn again, if only we had Max's medical records we would be able to know WHEN Dr. Peterson said to Dina/Nina that Max was "not given CPR within 2 minutes" and that Max was "suffocated";
3) Darn it to high heavens, if only we had Max's medical records we could find out WHEN the doctors/staff began speaking to Max’s parents re: Max's begin a possible candidate for organ donation. According to independent source
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1924930/
“In response to a traumatic brain injury or another tremendous physiologic “insult” to the brain (e.g., hemorrhagic or ischemic stroke), some patients suffer global and irreversible loss of brain stem function, leading to a diagnosis of brain death. Some of these patients may be candidates for organ and tissue donation, a decision mediated by the patient's previously expressed wishes, sometimes in the form of an advance directive or organ donor card,
and the preferences of the patient's family.”
4) Dina’s then boyfriend's daughter posted online on Monday, the same day of Max's injury, that "Max is braindead" and "in a coma.”
For those of us who know medicine and what braindeath is, we know that if Max was "braindead", the only way he'd still be in a "coma" is if the doctors used artificial life support and induced his coma with drugs.
"What does brain death mean? Brain death occurs in patients who have suffered a severe injury to the brain. As a result of the injury, the brain swells and obstructs its own blood supply causing brain tissue to die and permanent loss of brain function.
Brain death is permanent and irreversible. It is a legal definition of death. However, the vital organs such as the heart, lungs, liver, pancreas and kidneys can be kept viable for a few days if supported by artificial or mechanical support."
http://www.uwhealth.org/files/uwhealth/docs/pdf/OPO_BrainDeath.pdf
So emphatically, yes, if only we had Max's medical records, we can determine at which point in time Max was declared "braindead" and we'd know for certain who was telling the truth and who was lying about when precisely they were made aware of Max's nonrecovery: Jonah (who said "Tues") or Nina ("Thurs") or Dina ("Fri")...