AstroKitty
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I think a lot of people refuse to realize that the reason (well one of) that men / women rape children is because that is what they are attracted to. Some will have relationships with adult women, but when you learn of the inner workings of the sexual relationship between the adults - something is always off. A pedophile is attracted to children and sexually get aroused by them, the thought of etc. It is their sexual preference. I know that's hard to come to terms with, but it's true. You can't be rehabilitated or forced to change your sex preference. You are who you are. There are those that truly believe it's "love" and then there's people like Ian who are predators and enjoy power and sadism. A true Sadist is a sexual psychopath, which is Ian. He liked degrading, power, urinating on his victims, forced anal sex - the role of "Master" and creating servants. Reminds me of the book 120 days of Sadom, or Salo. This was his only sexual preference and how he achieved arousal and interest. The methamphetamine boosted his belief he ran the show and the praise from people whom normally have to groom; but in his case, these young girls and MOTHERS (both were mothers) were into that phase of older guy, famous guy, musician guy, money, hotel rooms, free drugs, being tied to him somehow. They wanted to do the most vile things to keep him or be his favorite. Both women had children. Both victimized their babies. In one case it's a lot more sinister than the courts detail. Ian had plans for years to get a "School girl" to commit acts on a dog. I have heard the rumors he did but they are just that - rumors. I believe he did try it, I don't think he was successful.
This is not someone that will ever change and there will be many more who will come forward. He creeped me out and I often wonder if it's because of one of my jobs that I just sorta had a gut feeling but I do not think I was ever in harms way. He didn't like women my age, or women at all. He had those relationships but 2. 2 verifiable exes in 15 years. And these were not long term gf's. He was into young girls and boys, and staying up doing drugs on twitter.
He's in prison now, off the drugs and how's his ego holding up? Ah, it's still there! So, the drug defense won't work for him at all. Be glad though that the warrant stood up because they only came there looking for drugs.
I also read somewhere that they hadn't even been able to go through all the *advertiser censored* on his hard-drives because it's that vast.
This is not someone that will ever change and there will be many more who will come forward. He creeped me out and I often wonder if it's because of one of my jobs that I just sorta had a gut feeling but I do not think I was ever in harms way. He didn't like women my age, or women at all. He had those relationships but 2. 2 verifiable exes in 15 years. And these were not long term gf's. He was into young girls and boys, and staying up doing drugs on twitter.
He's in prison now, off the drugs and how's his ego holding up? Ah, it's still there! So, the drug defense won't work for him at all. Be glad though that the warrant stood up because they only came there looking for drugs.
I also read somewhere that they hadn't even been able to go through all the *advertiser censored* on his hard-drives because it's that vast.