Hi all, been absent from posting for a long time but have spent the past few days catching up on all the posts. It is amazing what is gradually being revealed about this man and his double life. As I have told you all way back, my previous employer (devoted Christian Pastor, married, father of two young teen girls) was recently imprisoned for 10.5 years for rape, torture, drugging repeatedly a then 11 year old girl. I know full well how arrogant and what narcissists these types can be and all the while keeping up the mask of being a "fine man", but you are quite right, the mask slips, if you are watching closely and this man showed his colours to me with violent outbursts, teeth baring etc. belittling comments, did this to all women who didn't bow down to him. I went to upper management but was howled down and told I was hysterical woman (and eventually he found a way to falsify information and I was made redundant to get rid of me. Less than a year after my warning they caught him and arrested him at his desk!). The extent of this man's devious behaviour will never be known as his lawyer said in court that he didn't ever want his wife and girls to know (think BE will be the same) how deeply depraved he had become (so there was a lot more that didn't come out!). I believe a life was spared by this man's capture as he was, by the evidence presented, escalating his perversions. I totally agree that people close to him and even observant people only meeting him a couple of times, would perceive many strange patterns of behaviour that were out of control. Many women and men, overlook so much because they want to believe " it's just a phase", maybe having a bad day, he/she really loves me. Sad but true. Having sat opposite this man in morning meetings for 2 years I can tell you, the mask does slip, some just don't want to look at what's underneath! God bless WAPOL for getting this deviate AND my ex-boss! Now let's pray they get all their ducks in a row! Well done to all the super sleuths on here who have been so hot on the correct trail for so long!!