kaen
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The opposite side of the coin is whether careers were made because the predatory sexual behavior was not reported? Everyone is tiptoeing around this because it could be interpreted as victims' compliance in exchange for favours - not always money, but a recommendation, introduction, or party favor.
Surely, you are not suggesting that victims of a crime who did not report the crime are guilty of a aiding and abetting a criminal. These were "quid pro quo" agreements and not crimes, is that what you are suggesting? So victims of human trafficking who are given drugs for free based on their previous addictions are participating in a quid pro quo agreement because they don't call the police and report?
It is my understanding the "quid pro quo" agreements that are not found to be equal can be voided. What you are describing falls into "quid pro quo" harassment which occurs between parties that are unequal. The issue in the Spacey and Weinstein is that there is little civil protection that can ensure that these victims will not be harmed further b/c these cases don't fit the sexual harassment guidelines-- they were not direct supervisors, etc. The only recourse is criminal court which may or may not opt to prosecute. So, if the only redress beside a private settlement is a criminal complaint, then the issue is further complicated by the standard of legal proof required to prosecute. Maybe the LEO who don't prosecute should be held accountable the way some are suggesting victims who enter the said "quid pro quo" agreements as they left future victims to be victimized.
If the perpetrator can't be held responsible and the victim takes whatever "quid pro quo" settlement offered, do you suggest that victims of a crime who did not report the crime are guilty of a aiding and abetting a criminal and should be prosecuted by virtue of allowing the perpetrators to attack others?
I think it is awful to keep asking the questions about accountability of victims, implying that many victims made out so their situations are in a different category or should have a different scrutiny. For whatever reason, the idea that a victim did things to protect themselves to ensure their ability to work or feel safe is a shiny object that some hold on to in a conversation about abhorrent, illegal, and life-altering assaults where victims are finally feeling they can speak. It boggles my mind.