I know nothing of this case, but he was evaluated before the crimes? I don't think I can handle learning about another depraved individual but maybe I'll check it out later. Thanks!
I was fascinated by the people willing to “wait for more facts” myself, when it seemed to me there were plenty of facts to go with. However, SEVERAL people entertained the possibility that he was telling the truth and I’ve pondered over why that is myself and will offer my opinion (which may be flawed)....
....The videos also presented a story of contentment and happiness-but how could that REALLY be true if her husband killed all of them? And when he showed up in them, he looked benign and not like we envision killer dads or spouses to look.
On the other hand, there wasn’t much info on Chris Watts to look through. We only had her take on Chris’ personality which was glaringly unreliable in wake of the things he had done. So perhaps her own gushing reverence of him called her credibility into question....
People don’t like to believe that a seemingly normal, family man can snap so abruptly and with such little forewarning. If Chris Watts was capable of that, who isn’t?...
JMO
Would the proceeds from the sale of their home possibly go towards restitution? And if SW had a life insurance policy, if he’s the beneficiary, perhaps that too?
SBM for brevity
Serena, I really appreciate your well-thought out and respectful post here. Very insightful and I thought worth bringing forward again. Some of what you said doesn't apply to me, but what I've highlighted above is really spot for me on in many ways.
I was one who, while in absolutely no way a CW supporter, came to the point of wanting to at least try to hold my full judgement until we knew more. This was primarily in the interest of innocent until proven guilty- which I'm a real fanatic about just in general in life. This left me wanting to ponder the Defense strategy and to try to "keep an open mind" to a certain extent. (To be clear, I was never a SW basher and those following my posts would know this).
But what Serena said above, I think speaks to my deeper feelings and why I stayed awake some nights so disturbed by this case. It went beyond my interest in preserving the American justice system of innocent until proven guilty. I just couldn't (and still can't) wrap my head around a person doing this to his family. He seemed so normal. He just seemed so normal. In ways that other FA's have not to me. And being able to see all of SW's social media gave us an insight into their family life. SO. NORMAL. I'd not had an up-close view like this before. And their life not only seemed so normal, but amazingly positive. The question left like an elephant in my brain was: if CW could do this, what is up and what is down? Who else is capable of something like this?
So what Serena says- the effusive reverence of CW and the family life in SW's posts and videos- did call into question for me SW's credibility. The reality was that this family was murdered. All was NOT well. So my brain was not able to compute. It's not that I ever just "believed CW", it's that my brain did not compute the situation. I was searching for answers and therefore was open to nearly anything- anything at all that would help shed even a little light onto why the family dynamics ended up being literally the opposite of what we saw. (mental illnesses? personality disorders? financially irresponsible behaviors? affairs? anything...anything...was searching for anything to grasp onto.) Certainly nothing would ever fully explain it or in any way justify the deaths of those 4 souls, but what in the name of God went wrong? What was it? All was not well and nothing added up. It left me in a state of very uncomfortable confusion.
In any case, Serena's post resonated with me. I'm not inviting criticism of my post here, or interested in trying to defend anything. I'm just wanting to second Serena's deeper thoughts that I highlighted above. I think it's a great explanation of the way some of us could/could not process these atrocities and what motivated some of us on a deeper level. In the end, I'm impressed by so many posters' insights and knowledge of past cases, patterns they recognized, etc. I remain completely baffled as to how CW could do what he did. But he did. It will be a profoundly disturbing case for me for years to come.
Yes, I felt immediately that he really hated the younger child, his contempt was visible, and when we found out where he dumped them, that confirmed it to me. I would bet a month's salary that Celeste was the first to die.
SBM for brevity
Serena, I really appreciate your well-thought out and respectful post here. Very insightful and I thought worth bringing forward again. Some of what you said doesn't apply to me, but what I've highlighted above is really spot for me on in many ways.
I was one who, while in absolutely no way a CW supporter, came to the point of wanting to at least try to hold my full judgement until we knew more. This was primarily in the interest of innocent until proven guilty- which I'm a real fanatic about just in general in life. This left me wanting to ponder the Defense strategy and to try to "keep an open mind" to a certain extent. (To be clear, I was never a SW basher and those following my posts would know this).
But what Serena said above, I think speaks to my deeper feelings and why I stayed awake some nights so disturbed by this case. It went beyond my interest in preserving the American justice system of innocent until proven guilty. I just couldn't (and still can't) wrap my head around a person doing this to his family. He seemed so normal. He just seemed so normal. In ways that other FA's have not to me. And being able to see all of SW's social media gave us an insight into their family life. SO. NORMAL. I'd not had an up-close view like this before. And their life not only seemed so normal, but amazingly positive. The question left like an elephant in my brain was: if CW could do this, what is up and what is down? Who else is capable of something like this?
So what Serena says- the effusive reverence of CW and the family life in SW's posts and videos- did call into question for me SW's credibility. The reality was that this family was murdered. All was NOT well. So my brain was not able to compute. It's not that I ever just "believed CW", it's that my brain did not compute the situation. I was searching for answers and therefore was open to nearly anything- anything at all that would help shed even a little light onto why the family dynamics ended up being literally the opposite of what we saw. (mental illnesses? personality disorders? financially irresponsible behaviors? affairs? anything...anything...was searching for anything to grasp onto.) Certainly nothing would ever fully explain it or in any way justify the deaths of those 4 souls, but what in the name of God went wrong? What was it? All was not well and nothing added up. It left me in a state of very uncomfortable confusion.
In any case, Serena's post resonated with me. I'm not inviting criticism of my post here, or interested in trying to defend anything. I'm just wanting to second Serena's deeper thoughts that I highlighted above. I think it's a great explanation of the way some of us could/could not process these atrocities and what motivated some of us on a deeper level. In the end, I'm impressed by so many posters' insights and knowledge of past cases, patterns they recognized, etc. I remain completely baffled as to how CW could do what he did. But he did. It will be a profoundly disturbing case for me for years to come.
We just don't know. They haven't spoken publicly since the murders, as far as I know. That's certainly their choice and they may have good reasons for it. I will say, though, that denial can be a very powerful thing. I can't get Jackie Peterson out of my mind completely. She died believing Scott had nothing to do with Laci's murder. But she never liked Laci. Laci wasn't good enough for Scott in her eyes. It's hard to know what CW's family thinks unless they make a statement publicly. Maybe one day in the future they will. They are likely still reeling in shock as additional victims of CW.
SBM for brevity
Serena, I really appreciate your well-thought out and respectful post here. Very insightful and I thought worth bringing forward again. Some of what you said doesn't apply to me, but what I've highlighted above is really spot for me on in many ways.
I was one who, while in absolutely no way a CW supporter, came to the point of wanting to at least try to hold my full judgement until we knew more. This was primarily in the interest of innocent until proven guilty- which I'm a real fanatic about just in general in life. This left me wanting to ponder the Defense strategy and to try to "keep an open mind" to a certain extent. (To be clear, I was never a SW basher and those following my posts would know this).
But what Serena said above, I think speaks to my deeper feelings and why I stayed awake some nights so disturbed by this case. It went beyond my interest in preserving the American justice system of innocent until proven guilty. I just couldn't (and still can't) wrap my head around a person doing this to his family. He seemed so normal. He just seemed so normal. In ways that other FA's have not to me. And being able to see all of SW's social media gave us an insight into their family life. SO. NORMAL. I'd not had an up-close view like this before. And their life not only seemed so normal, but amazingly positive. The question left like an elephant in my brain was: if CW could do this, what is up and what is down? Who else is capable of something like this?
So what Serena says- the effusive reverence of CW and the family life in SW's posts and videos- did call into question for me SW's credibility. The reality was that this family was murdered. All was NOT well. So my brain was not able to compute. It's not that I ever just "believed CW", it's that my brain did not compute the situation. I was searching for answers and therefore was open to nearly anything- anything at all that would help shed even a little light onto why the family dynamics ended up being literally the opposite of what we saw. (mental illnesses? personality disorders? financially irresponsible behaviors? affairs? anything...anything...was searching for anything to grasp onto.) Certainly nothing would ever fully explain it or in any way justify the deaths of those 4 souls, but what in the name of God went wrong? What was it? All was not well and nothing added up. It left me in a state of very uncomfortable confusion.
In any case, Serena's post resonated with me. I'm not inviting criticism of my post here, or interested in trying to defend anything. I'm just wanting to second Serena's deeper thoughts that I highlighted above. I think it's a great explanation of the way some of us could/could not process these atrocities and what motivated some of us on a deeper level. In the end, I'm impressed by so many posters' insights and knowledge of past cases, patterns they recognized, etc. I remain completely baffled as to how CW could do what he did. But he did. It will be a profoundly disturbing case for me for years to come.
Do we know how the neighbor became involved in this disclosure to NUA?Actually, NUA had learned of the neighbors video surveillance before CW finally came home. CW was not aware of video, and learned in process --giving two different accounts to first and 2nd arriving officers. MOO
Had this been a DP case, I'm sure that it would be procedural. However, his defense was probably already working on an assessment. MOOWill the State have given CW a psychiatric assessment before sentencing?
NUA went to the residence at least twice, looking for SW in the neighborhood and asking neighbors if they'd seen her and the girls. The neighbor with surveillance video lived next door.Do we know how the neighbor became involved in this disclosure to NUA?
What do I know, but I simply think that he thought he wanted a relationship, marriage and kids. Got them. Then realized, with all the good and bad that it brings, that he just absolutely couldn't handle it. Of course all the details surrounding that are numerous and complicated, but he was just done.And his way to fix that was horrid. We’ve all said it already, many different ways.
Do we know how the neighbor became involved in this disclosure to NUA?
BBM Well, that's sort of why I wondered, because if, I say if, that was the sealed filing, and they try to mitigate his crimes at sentencing, based upon their psych assessment, maybe the State would need to have their own assessment ready for the Judge.Had this been a DP case, I'm sure that it would be procedural. However, his defense was probably already working on an assessment. MOO
I think it’s really brave of you to admit that to everyone here, I’m sure at that time you did what you thought was best for tour children, there’s no text book to tell you how to be a parent and it is hard sometimes. I’m a single parent to four children and there’s definitely been times I’ve felt like packing my bags and leaving! But no matter how hard it gets, you don’t hurt your children.What just baffles me beyond belief is what makes a person 'fix' things the way he did? Now i know what I speak of here....... Just like him, I had a relationship, marriage and kids. Nice home, job, loving parents and good friends. And I just walked out on it all. Yep, left behind a shocked husband, devastated young children, mortified parents and angry friends. Just snapped. Walked out that door and didn't look back for years. Not my finest moments, however...I guess I can be thankful every day that while my coping skills left nothing to be desired, I could never ever hurt another human being physically, especially not my children. I hear about cases like this and can only wish that he had the sense to just walk away. For anyone that says you can't always just do that, I am here to say you can.
I just cannot wrap my head around the fact that he chose such an option that he did. The thought never ever would have occurred to me to do what he did.
ps....just to add a footnote, in the past 10 years my now adult children and I have been rebuilding our relationship. They are gift and I am forever grateful that they found a way to let me back into their lives.
There will be no mitigating at the sentencing hearing. CW could not voluntarily enter the plea agreement if not of sound mind. At the hearing, CW was asked several questions by the Judge affirming this, and will continue to question him at sentencing. His punishment LWOP x 3 served consecutively is firm. MOOBBM Well, that's sort of why I wondered, because if, I say if, that was the sealed filing, and they try to mitigate his crimes at sentencing, based upon their psych assessment, maybe the State would need to have their own assessment ready for the Judge.
ETA - I have no idea if he would have pled guilty in that case.