The pain this family, this community is going thru is horrible. We didnt need to add to that by running back ground cks on those who we had no reason to believe were involved. IF we continue to do this, NO ONE is going to get involved to help each other out. IF I thought for one minute all my personal info would end up on the net, I sure wouldnt let the kids use my phone the next time & ensure they got home safe!
Unless you take drastic steps for your personal information to NOT be accessible via the Internet, it is.
While I don't run "background" checks on anyone, I don't really pay much mind to others who do. Why? Unless you're with law enforcement and have access to specific updated records, most of the other wanna-be-detective software is really kind of useless for *current* information. And most who do checks here only allude to personal information they've obtained, and posting specific personal information is pretty much discouraged. I can tell you in other forums the information is displayed openly, without any regard at all.
I am curious about the bf, though. Who among us wouldn't be given the plethora of cases where a family member or close friend has been involved in the disappearance of a child?