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    Found Deceased Ks - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #27

    I don’t think EG will show to the service. She is evil; but I think she knows she would be shamed, possibly hurt. Could JO get a restraining order? Then EG couldn’t be within X yards of the facility?
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    Found Deceased Ks - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #27

    It seems to go back and forth depending on the thread. Sometimes there is a little more sympathy for him and other times less. Personally, I can be empathetic and not give a pass. Probably my experience as a foster parent. Current foster child for example. I definitely feel for the parents...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #23

    We haven’t been encouraged to wait for peanut butter. We do baby led weaning (baby eats real food, whatever we are eating, with the exception of a few choking hazards, from six months on); so baby had peanut butter sometime around 6-8 months old.
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #23

    Jfwiw, regarding endometriosis... I had severe endometriosis. I got pregnant three times back to back to back, 2.5 years between the first kid and the last, 2 live births. I had surgery five weeks after the third pregnancy. The doctor was very surprised how bad the endometriosis had spread...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #23

    I don’t think she will get MH back easily either. Most child neglect and abuse cases do not have related criminal charges. Most of the time, all that is needed in a CPS case is an honest showing that a child may be in eminent danger. It’s a preponderance of the evidence, not beyond a shadow of a...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    Maybe they are waiting for each one so they can keep her locked up until they can arrest her for murder one. I hope she doesn’t get out :(
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    I didn’t show until the 8th month with the first baby and then still was tiny. With baby 2, I showed but still was small. Both times I had big babies. I also had a lot of back labor! Maybe that is where they were hiding. All the rest of my kids have come as foster kiddos so no baby bumps...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    Not much of a baby bump when she has had at least four pregnancies. Some people just hide these things better than others though.
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    Of course that is a possibility for any family member. And the long term aspects of it are considerations for anyone who ends up with the children. Foster and adoptive parents have to think of these things all the time as do all the family members of the children in care. Many times family steps...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    Where did you get that idea? Though sometimes family is vetted and gains physical custody right away, many times this takes months to do. This is even more true if family is out of the area or state because it takes a coordinating of efforts between agencies. Additionally, there are a number of...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    Actually, in many states, a relative of Lucas would be considered “fictive kin” to the babies (the one already here and the one she is pregnant with). And there could be some long term benefits for the children to be with Lucas’ family. It may be worth considering and looking into if someone is...
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    Found Deceased KS - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #21 *Arrest*

    That was my thought exactly. Pull out a yogurt, apple, and peanut butter sandwich and call it a day. No way she fixed supper after going to OG. *I* wouldn’t have! I would done leftovers or an easy to put together meal. Well, that is silly because obviously, *I* would have taken the child to...
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    Deceased/Not Found Ca - Hannah,16 (fnd dec), Devonte,15, (dec nf) Ciera Hart,12 (fnd dec),mendocino Cty,26 Mar 2018 #7

    Probably a mistake. On our house disclosure, one owner put a date a full month earlier than the spouse did. And I’ve had foster kids with more than one birthdate; but obviously they were only born once.
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    Deceased/Not Found Ca - Hannah,16 (fnd dec), Devonte,15, (dec nf) Ciera Hart,12 (fnd dec),mendocino Cty,26 Mar 2018 #7

    If they arrested both parents, what happened to the children while JH and SH were in custody?
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    Deceased/Not Found Ca - Hannah,16 (fnd dec), Devonte,15, (dec nf) Ciera Hart,12 (fnd dec),mendocino Cty,26 Mar 2018 #7

    Not poppyflower but maybe I can help? Veganism is a spectrum. There are those who go out of their way to not have anything to do with “using” an animal. They wouldn’t go to a circus, have a service dog or pet, choose certain vehicles and clothing, catch and release bugs, whatever. If they...

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