Dad left him in a car seat that was too small for the child and the straps were set much too low for him also, yet Dad made a point to tell police how he knew all about how to use the car seat.
He stayed at work for 3 hours and then went to lunch with friends and bought light bulbs which he placed inside the car upon his return. He did not tell police he had gone to home depot, and also did not tell police he had returned to the car at lunchtime despite their detailed questioning of his day. He then stayed at work for about 3.5 more hours.
He was sexting up to 6 different women, one of whom was underage, and he exchanged nude photos with her.
He watched a video on animals being left in hot cars AND searched to find out how long it takes a CHILD to die in a hot car. As did his wife, because supposedly they were very afraid it would happen.
Sexting isn't the issue for me - it's the lying. He did not volunteer the info to police that he had been sexting throughout the day. He was lying to his employer by doing that on work time, he was lying to his friends who admitted they knew nothing of that activity. Same for his brother. He also told one of the women he sexted with that he did not have a conscience - it didn't bother him to cheat even though he was presenting himself everywhere as a devoted husband and father.
This post was meant to help fill in your knowledge gap since you are new to the case. All of the info comes from sworn testimony at the probable cause hearing.
First, thank you very much for taking the time to fill me in. I do appreciate it. my response is to each paragraph, beginning with
1. an internet commercial I hear regularly makes the point (I have no idea if its true) that MOST parents don't know the correct size a car seat should be for their child. his telling the police that he does know is not meaningful to me. I have no idea why he said it.
2. if he thought the child was at day care, how long he was at work is meaningless, imo. That he didn't tell the police about the light bulbs could be because of several things: he could be trying to hide it, or he could have forgotten it with all the turmoil surrounding the death. or he could have remembered it, but wanted to lie because he realized it looks bad and was trying to protect himself. In fact, as soon as he realized the cops were looking at him, he well may have turned paranoid, for more than one reason, and that paranoia may have impelled him to make mistakes about the days catastrophic event.
3. the sexting means he is not a good husband, is a liar, has no conscience and a whole host of other things, but not necessarily a cold blooded killer. that an underage girl was involved doesn't change anything.
4. the video. I've never done that. Don't need to. The facts are all over social media, TV, newspapers, radio. And I'm sure he learned in that video that it takes VERY LITTLE time for conditions to turn deadly in a hot car. So, if he is planning it, this all day scenario seems a very poor choice, ripe with suspicion and questions. and unnecessary. otoh....it is suspicious and makes me wonder.
5. The deceit, the alternate life. Imo, anyone having an alternate life like he did is going to lie about it, and not tell anyone. That he had an alternate life is noteworthy and certainly casts suspicion his way.
So in summary, what these facts tell me is to take a hard look at the man, and his marriage. They don't tell me he is guilty of pre-meditated murder.
Thanks again for filling me in.