I realize the intent of most people is they are just trying to help and pool their help with the help of others in hopes of accomplishing something. We all have our own experience, or a lack thereof, to varying degrees. Add to this public forums attract the few people who think everything is a conspiracy with the government involved.
A few suggestions you can choose to ignore if you wish.
Get the facts straight before drawing any conclusions. The "what ifs" are a logical response but can become many never ending paths to nowhere that absorb resources better spent on other leads.
Realize it doesn't matter who you are, law enforcement included, you do not and cannot have all the facts and/or have them accurately. It's the nature of investigative work everywhere. One of the primary goal of every investigation is finding as many accurate facts as possible.
Law enforcement has various legitimate reasons for not revealing various facts. Sometimes to a degree of revealing few facts or information that is intentionally erroneous. The reasons for which too many assume to be corruption, incompetency, unethical conduct, etc. If you had a suspect or suspects would you want to keep them informed as to your investigation via the national and local media? Suspect(s) watch TV, listen to radios, read newspapers, and use the world wide web and social media too.
The various forms of the news media are not a reliable source for information. At best the information they have is 2nd hand. The conclusions they draw from whatever information they have are influenced by the weaknesses of human communication. The stories they publish or speak are influenced by who they work for and their goals. Not judging and not claiming all their goals are self centered. Just simply pointing out some of the facts that go into what we read, hear, and/or see.
All of this can add up to compounding the nightmare a family and loved ones go through. Leave the loved ones alone. Anything you do that could conceivably add to their grief should be off limits.
What we do not know is not evidence of wrong doing. It's evidence of what we do not know. The information we base our theories and conclusions on is often less than reliable. As indicated above. It can be a fault. It can be intentional for good or bad reasons. It can be a lot of things we simply don't know as we don't have the evidence to sustantiate it one way or the other.
This is not to make excuses for law enforcement or anyone else. Let the facts speak for themselves. Don't fill in the unknowns, leave them blank with a question mark and an open mind to various possibilities.
I'm not a regular member here. I signed up to do the post you just read. Chances are good I'll never be back as the life I live requires my full time and attention. The reason I did this post is I'm tired of seeing the damage done to family and loved ones by well meaning people who just want to help but fail to understand the impact of their actions on those loved ones and family when they go public with their theories and conclusions. Which can sometimes also hamper an investigation from the political fallout that lead investigators to do what others think they should be doing. Sometimes an investigator does need a push. Keep in mind the investigators who work missing persons and homicides are normally not your average investigators. Then add to it the experiences they have. Many of which they can't discuss.
It's okay to want to help. I'm not trying to discourage anyone. The goal is to not do more harm than good.
There IS something more to the disappearance of Lauren Thompson. What that something is, is a question mark with a blank space for open minds that know the limitations or others and our own limitations.
Pool your strengths, ignore each others weaknesses. Keep focused on doing something good without causing a bunch of damage. You will accomplish far more.
Back to my shadow.....