we have not seen terri ADMIT or DENY being an alcoholic
just that she was charged driving a car with a child in it while drunk
and her husband... same one which LAW ENFORCEMENT gave info on his own murder for hire plot...his testimony to that fact.
all that is left is for her to testify against it.. burden is on her at this point and she refuses to talk about it.
does silence=-guilt?
no.
but does it make you innocent?
no as well.
The issue isn't about whether she is an alcoholic or not, but a murderer. That is the real issue, now isn't it? Everything else is a distraction.
Why won't she testify in court? Because it will incriminate her? OMG!!
I agree that we don't know whether or not Terri is an alcoholic. But if she was getting passed out drunk on a regular basis, I don't think it is fair to say that Kaine could not have imagined in his wildest dreams that any harm might come to his children. Maybe not having one vanish, but just about any kind of harm imaginable can come to little children being cared for by an alcoholic. Certainly nothing good was going to happen and resolve the situation. I feel he was hiding it from Desiree in order to keep Kyron.
I don't think Kaine had any idea what Terri did during the day. But I know I would not assume someone with a drinking problem won't drink when they are in charge of kids. So I am just saying, something bad was bound to happen in this house, apparently, before Kaine was going to admit to Desiree how life had become, or make any drastic moves.
I found that quite believable until Kaine insisted that he was working from home 3 to 5 days a week. Then I wondered how he could not know what Terri was doing. I mean, sure if she's out running errands, that might be harder to track. But he didn't know what else she seemed to do all day at homem.
I found that quite believable until Kaine insisted that he was working from home 3 to 5 days a week. Then I wondered how he could not know what Terri was doing. I mean, sure if she's out running errands, that might be harder to track. But he didn't know what else she seemed to do all day at homem.
I would think that Kaine working from home 3 to 5 days a week, could mean the same thing he did the day Kyron went missing. He came home to work around 2:00 I believe. He never stated he never left the house, 3 to 5 days a week.
The day Kyron went missing, Kaine knew Terri was bringing him to school, for the science fair, but had no idea what she was going to do after that (unfortunately) she was home when he got home.
That could be what he did 3 to 5 days a week.
I would love to meet the person who isn't "vindictive" toward the person who they believe is the cause of their child being missing or worse for nearly six months. Vindictive wouldn't even begin to cover it for me.
And obnoxious...just wow. That's a word to describe the belligerent drunk that wrecks your holiday party. Not a grieving father who believes his soon-to-be-ex (thank goodness) wife harmed his son in the vilest of ways.
Rock on Kaine. She's lucky she's dealing with you and DY, not me :furious: jmoo
I do not want to bash Kaine.I just do not believe some of his allegations or the way he said things.
Her DUI was 5 years ago.Not today.That doesn't show me a problem.
I will say this and then I will move on.I've been in recovery for a long time and the ONLY ONE that can really call her an alcoholic is Terri herself.
- We admitted we were powerless over alcoholthat our lives had become unmanageable.
That is still a lot of hours for a baby to be with a mother who drinks...and drives. Not saying she did both at the same time, but how would Kaine know?
I honestly think he was trying to keep the situation from getting back to Desiree and his judgement may have been clouded.