If she really wanted that father of her kid found as desperately as someone in the situation she claims she is in should, anyone who works with her on this would have from her a file several pages long of little details she remembers about him, his apartment and his stuff. You go into someone's apartment for anything (and especially for sex) a few times, you notice stuff. What empties are next to their kitchen bin, what their alarm clock looked like, whether they are circumcised, what shampoo they use, what brand their jeans are, what scars they have, what type of underpants, whether they leave their ironing board out, what sort of bed, what sort of bedsides, size of their shoes, things they drop in small talk, do they do their dishes, what are their water glasses, do they were a necklace or an earring etc etc etc
She's been locked up for years. If this guy is the key to getting her out, every night she should be laying in bed with pencil and paper handy, trying to bring up in her mind what it was like with the father of her kid, noting down even trivial things. Was his toilet clean, did his furniture look like handmedowns or like it had been bought new, what aftershave, what comb, what brush, did he have books, did he have sports equipment, did he have anything that looked homemade, what tv did he own, what video player...
You would do that in her situation, I would do that in her situation. We'd be racking our minds for that one thing that might be able to used to jog someone's mind, support that a man someone suggests is him actually is him, or to get a clearer overall picture of what he was. We'd be noting everything down so we don't forget it. We'd send copies to anyone who would listen, please find this man, please. Doesn't seem to me like she's doing this. Seems to me she answers questions that are put to her and that's all. Which to me means she wants us to think he's out there but she's not so keen on him being found.
