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Hi South Aussie , stuff up the reply with your quote, my child snuck up on me, jumped ten feet into the air, not computer savey, how do you delete it this is the second time it has happened.
I know about the restriction about Social Media even as a foster child, different in my time but it was place there. Not allowed to do musical performances with class, do ballet/ performances be on debate/sport team in case my photos got shared.
It was very annoying but when I was old enough no longer on Welfare, I moved like an Elephant in Ballet Classes, I twinkled my toes across local theater groups, joined Shakespeare Debate( After that Richard 3, was banned or performed or even mentioned with the Shakespeare local group for some years)
Just thinking about as there were tough restrictions regarding foster family if Foster Family or extended members comes under court charges the children are removed. The FFQ I was removed from them(which I discovered in my records)was not due to complains from the school neighbours etc but they, the Welfare were informed that a member of the family was facing Court. Even though it was Children's Court the rules were applied and I was removed from them.
A thought just crossed my mind, it is rather a horrible one as I do look at memories of my past.
I know in my time foster children were easy target, as the Welfare does not like to be public as we saw in William case.
In my thoughts,William was grabbed by a person with bad/disgusting intention not just because he was a child, but a Foster Child, he was an easy target. It has been stated the people in the area knew William and Lindsay were Foster Children in a small town word does get around and to the wrong ears.
I believe if Lindsay had come out before William that fateful day we would be looking for Lindsay and William left with the shock of the loss of his sister.
Many People with bad intention would take an advantage due to Welfare Restrictions
In case many kids I heard/remember were sexual abused Welfare did none thing.
I, at the age of thirteen fought off an attack, I was punished for it. The boy's Mum demanded my punishment was still not good enough had me banned from certain parts of the school because her dear boy was so scared of me and that Welfare Girl(she called me) was trouble.She even came inside my Foster Family Q home four months later and insulted me saying I did damaged to School Property(Ripped up/torn down the Rose Bushes, really 1 they were native plants 2) me rip up Rose Bushes with my bare hands???)
This charming boy along with my FF Sibling the following year tormented me for over period of a few weeks, following me home pulling at their pants chanting that they were going to rape me. When they were confronted, my FF sibling said"She is Welfare. She is None thing I can do what ever I like to her. This was report to Welfare but none thing was done.
Sadly to a lot of people back twenty five years ago and more, if you were Welfare you belonged to the gutter.
I still face some people bigot attitude, from 40 years and up who had the cheek to question if I was a good parent.
I was one of the lucky one Leaving FFQ I was determined to forge my way in life
Many former Wards still suffer to these days from of their lost childhood.
Yes, lots of kids harmed. Some now taking people to court on historical charges, as well as the official institutional inquiries.
I am not sure that people in Kendall knew that William was a foster child before he disappeared? Maybe they did. I just don't recall reading that anywhere.
They may have only known that this daughter of FGM had a couple of kids .... unless they were close enough to FGM/FGD to know that this daughter had no kids, then all of a sudden she had a baby and a little girl. I guess that's possible.
I suppose FM/FD's close friends may have known, and possibly coworkers too ... and then word could have got around a bit from there.
Although, in Lia's podcast, she mentioned how police retraced their steps via CCTV - as much as they could - to ensure that they were not followed from Sydney, and also investigated to see if anyone had a grievance against them.
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