I read this a long time ago, and it has haunted me some, so I have decided to post on it.
This girl, who is now "old enough to know better", was not just sexually abused. She has been psychologically tortured since the age of 9. Right and wrong is learned behavior, and from what I have read of her circumstances, I highly doubt she was taught from any age the things her father eventually ended up doing to her and putting her through were wrong. Why would a person who is using his daughter worse than an animal teach her to value herself, or anyone else? IMO, for her to react the way she did when she found the note under her pillow suggests there was mind control going on for a while before hand. IMO, yes, this does excuse what she did. She is still a minor, and therefore, she has had no opportunities to get out from under this man's control, and see this isn't normal. She has had no opportunity to break free, so, as horrible as I feel it is, as horrible as I feel her part in what happened is, I still can't blame her at this point, because she didn't know better, this life is all she has ever known. Her mind is so screwed up, it may never be fixed. This man did this, and he, and everyone else involved, need to pay for it, bigtime.
Lanie