Noirdame79
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Why didn't the boys run as far as they could once of age.
They kept coming back for money.
It wasn't that simple. Their father had controlled them all their lives; they had very little real world experiences because they had not experienced a normal childhood or any kind of responsibility. Instead, they were emotionally and financially dependent on their parents (and Jose used his wealth and power to control them). How could they survive in a world they were unprepared for?
Lyle was heading back to Princeton in the fall and Erik was going to be attending UCLA; Lyle asked his mother to decorate his new condo for him. Clearly, something happened that led to the murders. And like most abused children, the brothers still longed for their parents' love and affection and wanted to be a part of their lives. Their anger and fear not withstanding, they loved their mother and father. There have also been instances where an incestuous father continues to molest his children until they leave home, go to college, get married. Lyle was no longer being molested by Jose, but Erik, who had just recently graduated from high school, had endured his father's abuse since he was six years old. People think of Erik being the size he was during the first trial but he was 23 years old by that time; at 18 he was smaller and thinner. He hadn't even been out of high school for four months when the murders occurred. Never underestimate the power a parent can have over a child, even when the child becomes an adult.
It's not as if Jose was elderly at the time of his death. He was 45 years old, weighed 200 pounds, was 6'1 and was in very good physical shape; the doctor who performed his autopsy noted that his body and organs were more like a man in his 20s. His only unhealthy habit was smoking, but he was not a heavy smoker in the way that Kitty was. He was a powerful, imposing figure, especially to his sons.
It's hard to understand unless you've walked in those shoes.