This just blows my mind. When I first watched the video I was appalled, covering my open mouth with my hand in awe. Then I got teary eyed watching it the second time.
I know this may be wrong in the pc terms, but my parents raised me that people in wheelchairs or ones who have a visible physical/mental disability should ALWAYS be treated differently - always with MORE compassion and patience than you would treat an able bodied person.
I was raised to accept behavior from any elderly or disabled person as "sometimes unexplainable, sometimes unexpected". Maybe that's wrong...
People who are disabled may behave more erraticly, inappropriate, etc. than others and you ALWAYS show compassion and thank your lucky stars you aren't in their shoes. I don't want or need to be a professional who "understands" and can slice and dice and explain behaviors. My "role" is to be compassionate, understanding, and helpful if I can.
I have no idea what this SSO dealt with on a daily basis, but under NO uncertain terms were his actions warranted. I don't care if he spit at him - as a professional adult who is responsible for ensuring kids get from one class to another safely (which includes disabled kids) he clearly doesn't have the patience and compassion to deal with such circumstances.
This to me is on the same level as the security footage at nursing homes where the caretakers abuse the elderly. It's sick and wrong.
Patience, compassion, understanding, and a large dose of forgiveness has to be at the soul of these professionals...and I just don't see how this man demonstrated any of those characteristics of what I would call "good human nature".
Very sad all around.