Midwestmom2019
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About da*n time!! (Sorry I couldn't get to this before today.)
So happy to see this news.
So devastated to know that Makayla was an 'alleged' victim of this horrible predator. But of course we all knew he was likely the murderer.
How can we stop these terrible men???
Actively participate in your childrens’
lives. Have dinner together. Pull together as a family. Work together on family and school projects. Know their closest friends. Invite their friends to your home. Know the other parents. Worship together if that’s your thing. Make sure that the kids trust you above all others. Keep their confidences. Accept what they say but check everything. If something seems suspicious, there’s probably a good reason for the suspicions. Pay attention to them before all the other “important” stuff in your life. If you want them to check in with you, you check in with them. “I’m stopping at the grocery store on my way home from work. I’ll be 10 minutes. Do you need anything? Do WE need anything?”
I let my kids know where I am almost all of the time if out of the ordinary. And they often times will tell me where they are without asking them.
Grow from parenting to friends. It’s a difficult balance but do the best you can do. And ask them how you can improve your relationship. What can you do to make the relationship better.
And hope for the best.