Discussion in 'Located Persons Discussion' started by ColoGirl, Aug 16, 2018.
And it's the desperate rage that is so dangerous
Since we are discussing who controlled the finances and how it might have played a role in this dreadful sickening crime, I have to share with you all a startling stat.
From the National Network to End Domestic Abuse, financial or economic abuse is present in 98% of domestic violence cases. 98. That's pretty much ALL, statistically.
Not allowing accessing to money.
Putting the wife/partner on an allowance.
Not allowing her to see the bills.
Etc, I think we all can figure out what it means.
The biggest takeaway is that to realize any man (or woman, but statistically far less likely) who says, "Hey, I love you, don't worry about money. I'll take care of anything." That's pretty irresistible! But it can lead to a slippery slope to control, domineering demands which are all very abuse.
I'm willing to bet, with all their money problems, that he controlled the finances. I know her Thrive business looks enticing but it's all a sham, we know that now.
Good question. No one has heard. I bet LE is looking into that!
so do you think the new spectacles are part of the look (you know, the "I'm not a ____" look they think eyeglasses indicate) or do you think he can't wear his contacts in jail?
I just watched the youtube video of his Class Presentation. There has certainly been a seachange in his appearance.
Oh my gosh I remember you saying that! Made sense to me!
I’ve had a busy weekend, just popping in...do we know if there’s a particular time tomorrow that the affidavit will be released? Or do we just need to keep a close eye on local media outlets?
Its not the eyes as much of the mouth - mean
I'm tending to lean this way too. He sold HER snake oil when he promised he'd take care of her as his wife when she agreed to move to CO. Then, they get here and he's not what he promised he'd be or provide.
She is then forced to work night shift at Children's to make ends meet during and after the BK. In the interim she tries various MLMs in order to stay home with her baby(s) and eventually lands on one that seems rather promising. It's at this time he begins to lose control.
He is agreeable at first - even helping her to promote these products. Meanwhile resentment is creeping in and later turns into a murderous rage.
Yes, SW and girls returned home from NC mid week, and SW went to AZ for the weekend intending to arrive home Sunday evening 8/12. Her flight was delayed so she didn't arrive Colorado home until Monday 8/13 at 1:48AM -- plenty of time to get Bella to school. Is Kdg still 1/2 day?
The video was super staged but that question about the pink vs. blue just seemed so manufactured to me. Also he looks so different in his glasses. What on earth could have happened to eff ths guy up so bad.. it’s so depraved.
Standby. I am opening a new thread in just a moment
Here’s what we know so far:
From the media thread:
Continue the discussion on thread #5