BingoBongo
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I was with a man for a few years that could not adult. He turned me into a controlling person because I was put into the positionon of having to manage his life because if it was not managed it affected me. I ended it, thank goodness. But controlling has many seasons and reasons and degrees.
Been there. Eventually you resent them, and yourself for giving in to their needy-ness. But if you don't give in, you pay the price when their lack of adulting hurts you.