Bit of hope
Life is a long lesson in humility.
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I'm not entirely convinced that his story was fabricated. Hopefully it's okay if I get a little personal here.
I'm an only child, I started losing family relatively young since the generation gaps are pretty big in my family. I only have 4 cousins and only two of them I really chat with regularly - regularly for me is about twice a year. I never had children. I moved out of my home state for a little and when I returned "home", I didn't keep in contact with the friends I had out of state other than liking pictures on social media and stuff like that. There was a lot of turnover in the job I had out-of-state so there wouldn't be a group of people that had a collective big red flag raise if more than one of them tried to contact me and failed. They probably wouldn't know if I went missing. My family probably wouldn't know either unless one of them was seeking me out. Combine all of this and the fact I live in the biggest city in the states (just like MH claimed he did) where you can get lost in a crowd if you wanted to.
I can totally see this being the situation that MH was in. I think MHs parents are both diseased and/or there was a major break in those relationships. I don't think MH was ever married. I don't think MH worked for a company in NYC as much as he worked as a consultant for a company in NYC. He could have worked freelance and if a company sought him out for services he just wasn't there and they contacted someone else. No red flags raised. If he was only working in short bursts at companies, and possibly doing some IT work remotely, he may not have formed friendships and acquaintances with people at those jobs. Heck, if shown a picture, they might not even recognize him.
At least IMO all of this makes finding his footprints so difficult. He's out there though.
Thanks for sharing. Personally I like it very much you get more personal. I have a better view now on how things can go in somebody's live. I think at least parts, if not all, of your story are applicable to MH's story.