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I'm beginning to think that Tonyas suggestion that the stepmom was possibly sexually abusing her own daughter (interestingly, just after her daughter says she now has two mommies), spiralled into a tit-for-tat revenge scenario, and these poor kids have been dragged into a nightmare.
Can someone please link me to where it says that tonyas daughter helped shave her stepmoms pubic hair? From every article I've read, it says the daughter noticed the difference between her mom and stepmom while showering with stepmom- not that she shaved it for her. BIG difference.
My six yr old dd showers with me sometimes, and my 11 yr old neice has walked in on me in the shower. I don't tell them 'dont look down there'. Of course they notice these things. They're curious.
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Going on to the issues with Sara Henke, her ex-husbands new wife, she said that her daughter had told her one day that you and Miss Sara are different. She said she described all the physical characteristics where she was different from Sara. Next she said, her child told her that she wasnt talking about that, she said youre different down there. You have hair down there and Miss Sara doesnt.
Ms. Craft stated that she still didnt feel that it was appropriate for (child) to be showering with Ms. Henke. She further testified that the child told her that she helped her step-mom pull the skin tight so that Ms. Henke would not cut herself. Following that Ms. Craft approached the school counselor to discuss this and find out what was going on and what to do. She wanted someone else to speak to the child as she didnt feel like she was objective enough to question her child.
Had your four year old grandson ever told a complete and accurate work of fiction about being sexual molested? I would certainly hope not, and if he did....I would hope you would believe him.
Children can not create entire plausible scenarios about something they have never seen or experienced like sexual abuse. It's like a 5 year old accurately describing everything involved in piloting an jetliner....it ain't gonna happen.
I simply do not believe these children got together and conspired to bring down Ms. Craft and lied so well to convince the professionals around them. I doubt two of them injured themselves to frame her. I also HIGHLY doubt parents could ever coach their children well enough to convince professionals and do you really think the parents would go so far as to injure their own daughter's vagina's just to "get" Ms. Craft?
I also do not believe this is all the work of an angry ex-husband nor do I believe it's a corrupt judge or prosecution all working together to get Tonya Craft. . I'm also not buying into it's a "perfect storm" of all of these things coming together.
As much as it pains me, this woman IMO is a child molester. It's the most simple and logical conclusion. I have no doubts.
Is there any way to get transcripts of the children's testimony? There seems to be LOTS of inaccurate reporting.
But she's not entirely wholesome with children. The boundaries seem blurred to me.
I know that my DD's teacher is very wholesome in the classroom, but I don't know what she gets up to in her spare time- that's none of my business, but it's also why I would never allow DD to go to a party or sleepover at her house.
They should have stuck to parties for kids and parties for adults, not all of them together....especially when alcohol is involved.
And they should not have mixed school and pleasure/parties...that's just a disaster waiting to happen imo. She's their teacher- she shouldn't be their friend and baby-sitter too.
And who lets their kid be watched by someone who had to write a letter of apology to everyone for her drunken behaviour?
Bad judgement all round imo.
I'm beginning to think that Tonyas suggestion that the stepmom was possibly sexually abusing her own daughter (interestingly, just after her daughter says she now has two mommies), spiralled into a tit-for-tat revenge scenario, and these poor kids have been dragged into a nightmare.
Can someone please link me to where it says that tonyas daughter helped shave her stepmoms pubic hair? From every article I've read, it says the daughter noticed the difference between her mom and stepmom while showering with stepmom- not that she shaved it for her. BIG difference.
My six yr old dd showers with me sometimes, and my 11 yr old neice has walked in on me in the shower. I don't tell them 'dont look down there'. Of course they notice these things. They're curious.
And one more thing, the kids may have been coached, they may have actually known about these things from their own admitted gf/bf play, or they may have seen it from being exposed to *advertiser censored*, either by an adult, another child, or just from being online.
Regardless, if it were my child involved I would absolutely err on the side of caution and get it all checked out. but i would also tell them that the most important thing was telling the truth, no matter what it is, and if they were making it up, or told to say it, they would not get into ANY trouble for changing their story.
JMO
Where do you get all of that out of your link?! :
I think that this testimony from the father of one of the accusers [/I]is better described in this article:
http://www.chattanoogan.com/articles/article_174160.asp
This is how Ms. Craft testified:
http://www.chattanoogan.com/articles/article_175102.asp
I am happy for Tonya being found not guilty by a jury of her peers. IMO the judge presiding over the case was not at all impartial. Hopefully she can begin to rebuild her life somewhat back to normal.
I am sorry for the children who were involved in this and what they have gone through. I also hope CPS follows up on testimony and investigates other leads and provides these children with additional counseling if it is needed.
Tonya is probably financially broke now and, realistically, may never teach again but at least her name is cleared.
Prayers for all involved in this mess.
wm