raja
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The mom question keeps coming up and last week I think someone asked something along the lines of if you were BG's mom, would you turn him in?
I'm a mom and I've been thinking it over. There is no easy answer to this because in your heart your child is your little baby that you nursed and bathed and changed and taught how to walk and guided through school and all of the things. Your baby always. That's who your child is in your heart. But at the same time they are their own person and sometimes people do bad things. Sometimes even good people do bad things and certainly bad people do bad things.
I want to say that I would turn my child in if they outright heinously murdered someone innocent. I might do it anonymously, I might do it openly, I am not sure, but I think that I would turn them in. Especially if I knew in my heart of hearts that it wasn't an accident or that it could happen again - I want to believe that I would be compelled to turn my child in. I would certainly struggle with it but in the end it is what I would want someone to do if it were the other way around and my child had been murdered. The golden rule and all.
I would still, of course, love my child forever and I think that is ok. You can still love your child and do the right thing even if it goes against every protective motherly instinct you have.
This has haunted me as well. I pray I would do the right thing but I would have to have dang hard evidence of it. I think I would first hire an attorney to guide me and let him handle the LE notification. Golly what a horrible position that would be. I think the guilt of not doing the right thing would destroy me and certainly would end up destroying any relationship I had with that child. Let's face it any child that would kill 2 innocent people is not going on to have a good life like we so all wish for our children.