This is certainly one of those cases that 'got' to me. I've been thinking of Zahra constantly, trying to imagine dealing with cancer and chemotherapy, not to mention the loss of a leg, at such a young age, and remaining strong and hopeful throughout. And i truly believe she was -- that short video which shows her being fitted for her new hearing device -- I see hope and intelligence and strength in Zahra's eyes. Just from looking at her photos and seeing the short videos of her, I can tell this was one extraordinary little girl. Sadly, i don't believe she is with us any longer, and the thought of someone taking her life, most likely in a painful, horrible way, after she had the strength to survive cancer and its related treatments, makes my blood boil. How dare she?
Which brings me to the stepmother. I had to admit I only learned about this case a couple of days ago, and am still trying to catch up and am only halfway through the second thread, so I apologize if anything I say has already been said or is irrelevant. The stepmonster is a selfish, lying, ugly sociopath. She was hideous when she was fat, and she is hideous now, on the inside and out. I believe she was probably jealous of Zahra. Zahra was strong, young, charming, intelligent, beautiful on the inside and out - all qualities the stepmonster never had or could have, and she knew it. She was probably jealous of the praise Zahra received and the strength she displayed in overcoming her illness and disabilities, and it made her angry. That could be why she lied on her MySpace and told the world she herself had struggled through multiple bouts of brain cancer -- probably in the hope that she, too, would be recognized, as Zahra had, for surviving and remaining strong. What a fraud. In addition, what is up with Zahra's father? Is he ignorant, in denial, or <edit>? Does anyone know if he had a MySpace? Wouldn't he have seen his wife's MS at some point and been like, 'Uh, honey, you don't have brain cancer. WTH is going on?' If Zahra's teachers and neighbors noticed bruises on her face and saw abuse by the <edit>, why didn't he see it? Like I said, i don't know if he was in denial, didn't care, or was just <edit>, but I hold him responsible for not being a father to his precious, beautiful daughter. I hold him responsible for moving Zahra all the way around the world, away from the friend and school and doctors she knew, away from free medical care, just so he could get laid or whatever it is he wanted in America or from the <edit>.
And on the issue of responsibility, yes, it does sound like DSS dropped the ball once again. I'm sure there are some dedicated social workers out there, who entered the field because they truly care about children and want to help them, but i've read about so, so, so many cases of children dying or being injured after they should have been removed from dangerous home environments by DSS, that i'm beginning to think that most of these people are lazy or just don't give a sh%&. Two other recent cases come to mind - that of Chandler Grafner out of Colorado (a quick Google search under his name will bring you to a website dedicated in his honor) and more so, that of Danieal Kelly out of Philadelphia. If you go to this site:
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/5802508/Danieal-Kelly-Grand-Jury-Report
you can read the grand jury report (WARNING: it is very long and also VERY graphic and difficult to read for that reason); tell me if that story doesn't make you jump out of your skin in anger. In Danieal's case, several DSS social workers and their supervisors were prosecuted, believe it or not, and if I remember correctly received long prison sentences.
sorry for the long post. I am just so angry. So many people - friends, teachers, neighbors, family - saw Zahra was being abused and still she remained living in that dangerous environment. Didn't one family member go so far as to say, "I knew this would happen" ?? or something along those lines? Quite a statement. I just can't imagine knowing and seeing a child being abused and not risking life or limb to save him or her. I would call the cops - consistently until they did something. if all else failed I'd take the child myself and hide them! Who cares about the consequences? Save the child's life now, worry about the rest later. I wish these people had seen the light sooner and done something to save beautiful Zahra. Beautiful, strong, soulful Zahra. She will not be forgotten, and her strength has touched many hearts, certainly mine.