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First, I am not singling you out. I value your posts and your info, and find many of your post well thought out and clearly written. But these are comments I am hearing so often, on so many sites, and I am simply using yours as a springboard for my post. Absolutely nothing personal...
How do we know she is detached emotionally, or how she seems to be? We haven't seen very much of her, and we didn't know her, or how she parented before Kyron went missing. We know what one person has said, and we don't know how much of that is actually true..I am just curious how we feel she is 'surprised' about what a big deal this has become? She didn't seem surprised at the PC-she seemed distraught, withdrawn and sorrowful, while appearing to make attempts at comfort towards the others. Is there an interview I have missed? I personally didn't feel Kaine seemed to treat her with distance. I felt he was strongly supporting her, standing behind her, but simply was not going to discuss her guilt or innocence (or the facts surrounding her) with the media. At the press conference, he held her close. In the bio-parent interview, he seemed supportive and confident in her. Outside of a lot of comments on the media site, we really don't know anything at all about TH, what she feels, thinks, or is experiencing now. She could be crying her eyes out all day and all night-how would we know? She could be on sedatives, under a doctors care, or enjoying life like she had no worries. How would we know? Again, outside of many comments on the media sites, (Yes, I have seen her FB, and no, I didn't particularly find anything there that upset me. The smileys I believe were for her friends benefit, telling them to smile-I have done the same, in a tragic situation; the sheet comment I believe, if memory serves me correctly, was to a friend who had come over and fixed the beds for her, to express her thanks).. We don't know anything at all about her parenting, her love for this child, what kind of relationship they had. We have not been privy to information-accurate information-to let us know these things. In the early articles, I had the impression that she was a caring involved mother, active in school and community activities, and well-liked. I certainly would not let the comments on the online news sites determine my impressions of this woman, especially as many of those-most of those-are most certainly written by people who never met her. We hear rumors-but rumors are not circumstantial evidence. I cannot base my opinions of these comments and rumors-I need facts. I cannot make an assumption based on dislike, or suspicion alone-I need to know details, accurate details-in order to make an opinion. I read the comments on the media site, and I am amazed, and many times I am disgusted-for people who don't know this woman, for those who 'think' she did it, but have no facts or evidence-...I am amazed. Simply amazed. She is being crucified in the comments, and I am willing to bet none or very few of those posters even know her. She may have been the last person to see Kyron-and she may have just been the last person we actually know about. I have to assume there is a link I missed with an interview with her...I would so appreciate it if this link could be posted so I CAN see it. I may have to revise my opinion and my mindset-if I see a link that supports her surprise, her uncaringness, or her poor parenting I will gladly reconsider how I feel. But until then, I have to stay fair, and open-minded. I need to continue to wait for facts, and details, to determine her guilt or innocence. I would have been NO fun at the historic witch trials-or I would have been one of the accused!
As far as circumstantial evidence, what do we know for facts, and what evidence they have? All we know is she took the child to school, and left him there. She said she left alone. We don't know if this is true. But we also don't know it is NOT true. But that is not evidence. Some will believe her, some will not. We don't know what she drove, we assume it was the truck. But it may have been the red mustang. A white truck-similar to hers-may have been seen at the school. it might have been a stranger, a pedophile or a parent of another child. In other words, what do we really know> For fact-to compile circumstantial evidence-what do we REALLY know? We know NOTHING-except that little Kyron is missing, and she took him to school. JMO