GUILTY NM - Renezmae Calzada, 5, found deceased, Rio Arriba County, 8 Sept 2019 *Arrest*

  • #681
Well....if he was extorting sex from the mother, it would appear that sex is a high priority for him. Make of that what you will. He's a piece of filth.

And the level of physical abuse and violence upon MaeMae’s mother...really really violent.

Sounds like he gets drunk out of his mind too, so bad he’s barely conscious and trying to drive.

I’ve known alcoholics who wouldn’t lift a hand though to a woman or child but it sure does give an overall picture of a man who is totally out of control on many levels.

I bet he’s been grooming her for a while. Moo.

When was the last time she saw the Pediatrician I wonder.

In addition to motive of him possibly trying to punish her mother, I suspect another motive could be preventing Renezmae from “telling”, or perhaps lost his temper and hurt her.

I wish the mom could’ve gotten away from him sooner.
 
  • #682
And the level of physical abuse and violence upon MaeMae’s mother...really really violent.

Sounds like he gets drunk out of his mind too, so bad he’s barely conscious and trying to drive.

I’ve known alcoholics who wouldn’t lift a hand though to a woman or child but it sure does give an overall picture of a man who is totally out of control on many levels.

I bet he’s been grooming her for a while. Moo.

When was the last time she saw the Pediatrician I wonder.

In addition to motive of him possibly trying to punish her mother, I suspect another motive could be preventing Renezmae from “telling”, or perhaps lost his temper and hurt her.

I wish the mom could’ve gotten away from him sooner.
I wish she could have gotten away sooner too, but she tried. NM courts gave him 50/50 nonetheless. As far as I am concerned, the family courts of NM have the death of this child on their heads.
 
  • #683
I wish she could have gotten away sooner too, but she tried. NM courts gave him 50/50 nonetheless. As far as I am concerned, the family courts of NM have the death of this child on their heads.

Sad truth. More than one state will split custody of a minor child with an abusive parent. 23 years after the fact, I still dont understand it.
 
  • #684
Sad truth. More than one state will split custody of a minor child with an abusive parent. 23 years after the fact, I still dont understand it.
20 years after the fact, I don't understand it either. He only beat me, after all, not the children.:mad:o_O
 
  • #685
And the level of physical abuse and violence upon MaeMae’s mother...really really violent.

Sounds like he gets drunk out of his mind too, so bad he’s barely conscious and trying to drive.

I’ve known alcoholics who wouldn’t lift a hand though to a woman or child but it sure does give an overall picture of a man who is totally out of control on many levels.

I bet he’s been grooming her for a while. Moo.

When was the last time she saw the Pediatrician I wonder.

In addition to motive of him possibly trying to punish her mother, I suspect another motive could be preventing Renezmae from “telling”, or perhaps lost his temper and hurt her.

I wish the mom could’ve gotten away from him sooner.
He also uses drugs. One of his DWIs was for driving under the influence of drugs.
 
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Could someone explain how a boyfriend would get 50/50 custody of a child that is not his?
Does NM have some kind of a common law father law?
 
  • #688
Could someone explain how a boyfriend would get 50/50 custody of a child that is not his?
Does NM have some kind of a common law father law?
We're all wondering about that. NM seems to be weird and/or oblivious when it comes to the welfare of children.
 
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Still in jail in Rio Arriba. Just checked.
 
  • #692
Could someone explain how a boyfriend would get 50/50 custody of a child that is not his?
Does NM have some kind of a common law father law?

I can't hazard a legal guess. I'm wondering if he was or had been contributing to the finances and their care. Especially if a biological father wasnt involved and paying child support.

I know for a fact of a case outside of New Mexico where 2 minor kids got social security benefits when their stepfather died. Their biological father was in and out of jail for never paying child support. It was determined stepdad was their main source of financial support.

All JMO.
 
  • #693
I can't hazard a legal guess. I'm wondering if he was or had been contributing to the finances and their care. Especially if a biological father wasnt involved and paying child support.

I know for a fact of a case outside of New Mexico where 2 minor kids got social security benefits when their stepfather died. Their biological father was in and out of jail for never paying child support. It was determined stepdad was their main source of financial support.

All JMO.
But was he just their mothers boyfriend or was he married to their mother?
 
  • #694
I can't hazard a legal guess. I'm wondering if he was or had been contributing to the finances and their care. Especially if a biological father wasnt involved and paying child support.

I know for a fact of a case outside of New Mexico where 2 minor kids got social security benefits when their stepfather died. Their biological father was in and out of jail for never paying child support. It was determined stepdad was their main source of financial support.

All JMO.
This guy wasn't even the step-father though. He was just mom's boyfriend. And not working. I don't get it. I really don't.
 
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Could someone explain how a boyfriend would get 50/50 custody of a child that is not his?
Does NM have some kind of a common law father law?
The best explanation I have seen is from MsFacetious. See post below. MOO
In some states you can sign an acknowledgment of paternity. So if Malcolm met Mom while she was pregnant and bio father did not want to be involved, he could sign that claiming her and be listed on the birth certificate. Some states even require it if the parents are not married.

If this is what happened it would explain why mom didn’t call him her stepfather. However it would also explain the police mentioning the bio father, because they are aware of him and cleared him. It would also explain why Malcolm might have both kids and get visitation with both kids.

We have this situation a few times in my family tree. That is the scenario that makes the most sense to me.
 
  • #699
"When asked about an alleged suspect who had been named by media Tuesday, FBI public affairs officer Frank Fisher said the FBI doesn’t talk about those aspects of the investigation until someone has been charged."

Sad Ending To Search For Renezmae Calzada, Investigation Not Over

So how long can they hold him without charging him? He's been in custody for the 5th day now, conveniently on out of county warrants. And it seems to me that ALBQ is dragging their feet, purposely or not, in picking him up so he can see a judge on the warrants. Misdemeanor warrants, at that. If he is not the perp, he is really getting screwed over.

As to the bolded, if he has 2 or 3 DUI'S in the past, and then recent Domestic Violence incidents, then I don't feel too sorry for him, having to sit in a cell for a few weeks. Couldnt happen to a better guy. ;)
 
  • #700
2018 APSR Update:
PSD continues to honor and build the relationships with the tribal and pueblos communities throughout NM. The Federal Reporting Bureau Chief, Cynthia Chavers, has also been designated to be the Tribal Liaison. In this role, Ms. Chavers represents CYFD/PSD in several workgroups and consortiums, including: the NM Tribal ICWA Consortium, the Tribal‐State Judicial Consortium, and the NM Partners Group facilitated by the Casey Foundation. Ms. Chavers also serves as a consultant to field staff on ICWA cases and to the Professional Development Bureau on training needs of the agency.
PSD works in these groups to address general concerns of the tribes; to increase the communication and collaboration between the state child welfare agency and the tribes; to ensure that best practices are widely known and accepted by field staff; to consult on cases when tribes request assistance in working with PS field staff; to provide training, education, and resources to CYFD’s tribal partners; and to continue to advocate for ICWA to be considered the “gold standard” in child welfare practice in NM.
PSD collaborated with the NM Tribal ICWA Consortium (NMTIC) to present at the largest child welfare conference in the state, the NM Children’s Law Institute. The presenters were NMTIC President, Donalynn Sarracino (Pueblo of Acoma); NMTIC Vice‐President, Jacqueline Yalch (Pueblo of Isleta); and Cynthia Chavers, Federal Reporting Bureau Chief CYFD. The title of the presentation was “Using ICWA as a Tool in Tribal/State Collaboration.” This presentation was received very well by the audience, which was made up of caseworkers, administrators, attorneys and judges who work in child welfare. One audience evaluation stated it was the “best ICWA training (the participant) ever attended.”
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CYFD leadership also has the pleasure of participating in the NM Partners groups facilitated by the Casey Foundation. The NM Partners have been meeting quarterly since 2015. The group is comprised of representation from the NMTIC, the Tribal‐State Judicial Consortium, CYFD, the Administrative Office of the Courts, and the NM CASA program. This group’s stated intent is: “A coming together of minds & partners in the State of New Mexico to dialogue on Indian Child Welfare & promote collaboration and communication for better outcomes for American Indian and Alaska Native children and families.” The NM Partners conducted a strategic planning session in May of 2018 and devised five consensus vision statements:
1) ICWA specialized court and unit is the gold standard of legal and social work in NM
2) Quality, relevant data of Native American children is standardized and consistently collected and used to support meaningful practice, decision‐making and resource allocation.
3) Every level of leadership recognizes the value of collaboration to build trust and transparency to support better outcomes for kids.
4) Consistent, culturally‐informed and safety‐focused practices are NM’s (ICWA) gold standard in legal and social work.
5) Cross agency training is built through consensus engagement a comprehensively builds ICWA skills, knowledge and attitudes to support best practices.
These five statements are now the goals that CYFD/PSD will collaborate to achieve with the NM Partners.
https://cyfd.org/docs/2018-2019_New_Mexico_CYFD_APSR_September_2018_Final.pdf
 

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