GoBuckeyes
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Is there a gatekeeper in this scenario? A 13 yr old in a relationship with an 18yr and going on to produce a child a couple years later. Both parent seemingly agree with the arrangement. At the time, no one was alleging abuse, at least openly. At what point does an adult say this isnt cool. We ain't having this up in here.
With all the speculation about drug business, pill running, ect...this case boiled down to a good old fashioned family dispute over jealousy and custody.jmo
I agree, far few do not get arrested and stand trial because of whatever reason....embarrassing for victim,
We spent quite a while discussing this along the way. I think there was consensus on different areas of the country, Appalachia, in this case, being more likely than other areas to be accepting of such age differences among dating minors, which Jake was still at the beginning of the courtship. While the law applies clear limits on age of consent and acceptable age differences, life is messy and not nearly so objective, even more so where 2 minors are involved.
Adding...that age difference would not have been acceptable if HR were my daughter, but I'm not going to pass judgment either. Appalachian culture is different. I see the Rhoden parents as very loving, involved, hard-working, etc. And their children were, by all accounts, very happy. AMOO