Oh my! Thanks for letting me know. Now I feel bad. It seems difficult to know just how to educate our little ones on this topic, doesn't it? Maybe it would help if there was a secondary video to the first one, to help children talk to their parents about any family or friends of mom and dad's that the kids feel uncomfortable with and why?
At the karate seminar, they stressed kids learning about intuition and how to get out of a situation or setting that brought on that intuition safely before the abductor can get to them.
I so wish this case wasn't reminding me of the Tori Stafford case. If I am remember correctly, it was never confirmed what exactly the relationship was between Tori's mom and one of her abductors. That was a 'connection' that disturbed/puzzled many posters.
It is a fine line to walk. I remember with my kiddo when he was little...
He was playing in the yard, and I got in the car (told him to stay put and that we were going to go over some of the stuff I had taught him)--and I backed out and pulled into the driveway. Said, "Hey, little boy. I just talked to your mom and she said that you could help me go find my missing bunny. Hop in and we'll ride around the block and go see."
He screamed NO! and ran in the house.
Backed out again. Pulled in... "Hey little boy. Don't be afraid, I'm just going to ask your mom if I can borrow the phone."
He screamed NO! and ran in the house.
Anyway, that may seem silly, but he understood that people can be tricky.
However, if we were at the grocery store and a lady said to him what a cutie he was, he knew to say thank you.
I know I'm babbling. I took my son with me to the public bathrooms like at Walmart until he was eight. And when he became older, I only took him to one-stall bathrooms, until he became the 6'4" big boy that he is now and can easily defend himself.
I also taught my son never to eat or drink after anyone at school. To this day, it has backfired--he won't share a snowcone with me, or a bottle of water, or anything. LOL.
(Sorry so long of a post)