nhmemorymaker
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Replying to @Ontario Mom's post on previous thread.
This is EXACTLY how I feel. Thank you so much. The ONLY reason for wanting to identify either parent is IF it's going to somehow lead us to WHO had Joseph at the time of his death.
Imo, and I guess it's just a gut feeling, his bio parents did not cause his death and did not know the BITB was their boy. My feeling, moo, is he was with his bio mom for a while and then *something* happened. And somehow, possibly through the foster system or the agency they worked with, or in an unofficial way, he ended up with an abusive guardian who murdered him.
MOO
And me as well. I want to know who committed these atrocities.
I have such a hard time connecting the 'crime' to the birth parents.
But WHY would this child be with another family or persons? I have my own suspicions for sure, but I would like to know why.
---If removed from birth mother immediately after birth, then the birth parents probably would not have recognized their child with the heavy publicity.
---If the child was removed from the birth mother later, then I would think that said birth mother would immediately worry/wonder if that was her child.
And I wish we knew PRECISELY what information the state of PA collects on those birth certificates.
----this is what is so frustrating... this information EXISTS, but we cannot see it.
When the hoopla settles down.... who would LE ask "is it ok to show the birth certificate now???"