I am sorry to say that Rebecca's case seems to be such a classic case of domestic abuse...with all of the warning signals before the marriage...her family must have known, since he served time for it before they married, I wonder how/why she was able to still go through with it, as they soound extremely supportive and involved...if she has been found and this turns out to be what it appears to be, it shows, I guess, just how varied the victims of domestic abuse are and how some victims just are not able to break free. JMO