I am so sorry for what you and your son are going through MaH.
My daughter is not SPED, but last year a SPED teacher was a temporary coach for my daughter's girls pep squad team. She was horribly mean to the girls on the team and when the girls got their new (skirted) uniforms in this teacher tried them on the SPED boys in her class, took pics and sent them to the girls. With the pic she sent a message saying "these dumb boys will do a better job than you guys". I was horrified that she did that to her own students. Several mothers including me reported it to the supt of edu. The next day she was removed as coach and within a week transferred to another school. Later I found out that she had been transferred twice previously. I just do not understand how this type of behavior is not a firing offense. I pray for her current students all the time.
Best of luck to you and your son.
THESE people who call themselves educators for the kids make me ill. I was physically ill reading your post. I am so sorry
Thank you for your well wishes too!
Many of you answered questions for me. IDEA is a Federal Law, It's in all 50 States. A Special Education student is provided Special Education until they are 22 at School District expense. Some Districts, pay for private education to get students out, some teachers run others off, most quietly attend Special Day Classes in the School system and learn transitional living skills. Like David was doing, up until a year ago when his nurses< both were fired> reported the abusive teacher and unlawful neglect for interfering with David's Diabetes care and causing a low glucose seizure and force feeding him protein he cannot digest until he vomited. He does this every day now, and it is an uncontrollable reflex after eating. The bottom line is I hired his own trained 1:1 nurse that they fired. It would save them the $160,000 they were paying in wages to provide 1:1 assistance. They refuse to allow her or me (his parent) to provide the care at my own cost PLUS want me to take their bribe... only criminals do that.
They want me to forego his physicians orders, His IEP, Diabetic Management Plan and Individual Health Plan that requires her trained 1:1 nursing care specifically or mine and because I filed complaints, & retained an attorney. Who has since quit when I refused to sign medical authorization for their untrained, non english speaking, health aides to take care of David, who cannot communicate with him to determine pain or illness- or their blanket release. They won't allow him to use his Ipad and software he "speaks" with. They offered my attorney $10,000 in attorney fees in their settlement agreement offer. She wanted her fees, for me to sign away his rights, send him to school with people who had allowed harm to him, previously who can't understand his communication system and are completely untrained on his brittle, type 1 insulin dependent diabetic needs that include testing, treating 8-15 times a day.
On a GOOD note, he is enjoying my home schooling that we have been doing since last year (Feb 2013) He goes with his nurse, rides her horses, goes swimming, bowling, works on his ipad vocabulary, typing, self help and living skills, he has a driver, a personal attendant, a private duty nurse. Today he helped unload hay, bought a new cowboy shirt and did his water aerobics. See his smile?
He's safe and happy.