fran
Former Member
Maybe he thought about it and decided he liked
Brad more than Heather.
Ya never know, I guess.:waitasec:
Maybe the techies have their own way of dealing with things.
fran
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Maybe he thought about it and decided he liked
Brad more than Heather.
Does anybody here know where the link is to Nancy on Corolla Island?
Thanks fran.
Do you have the link to the thing they removed?
NO, I'm not sure I ever saw it. I think it may have been on the photo thread, or someone's personal photo bucket. They just said it's been removed.
That's all I know about it, sorry.
fran
http://www.wral.com/asset/news/local/2008/07/23/3258895/Plaintiff_affidavits.pdf
Insight into affair w/ HM and possibly others.
I hope the facts of this case help the next wife and mother who is being controlled and verbally abused by her husband to take heed and plot her escape from the abuser well and long before she too ends up like Nancy did.
Such a control freak should never learn in advance that his wife is 'unhappy' and wants a divorce. She should do the best acting of her life and pretend all is well for as long as she needs to. But she should be socking away money and get herself a good and private plan to escape to save herself and her children.
NEVER EVER give a control freak abuser spouse information about what you want, ESPECIALLY if it's about gaining your independence. Never give your abuser the opportunity to 'snap' and do the ultimate control maneuver: murder.
Plot your escape carefully. Take your time. Make sure you have money in cash and hidden. Make sure you contact your local women's shelter and document what is happening with you. But SECRETLY! Do not leave evidence around where your control freak abuser might discover it.
Do whatever you have to do but PLOT YOUR ESCAPE, GET OUT, GET YOUR KIDS OUT, and SURVIVE!
Interesting that Heather's ex husband is supporting Brad, with an affidavit on his behalf.
Strange, really strange.
Why would you stay friends with someone who had an affair with your, then wife?:crazy:
Interesting dynamics here at work......{{shakes head in amazement}}
fran
OMG...I had to stop reading and post without being totally caught up. I just CAN not believe she thought he was that bad of a father. I do NOT believe that she thought he would harm her girls. The woman went running ALL the time and left her girls with him.
PLUS on the eve of her death...she remained at this party...leaving him home with the girls until midnight. This does not sound like a woman that would say anything about how good of a father he was just to get out the marrige (as mentioned by an earlier post).
I'm looking at just these facts...if she felt they were endangered she would not have left them with him as she trained or the night before her untimely death (when things were probably at their worst). Not saying he's innocent but IMHO those two thoughts can not be put in the same sentence...some perspective here.
Fran,
That post ought to be bronzed and posted in every Dr's office in America - or where women could see it, read it, and recognize themselves - and where they could get help.
Bravo to you.
Fran, ITA, your post makes sense. I "get" the fear that an abused wife does feel. My comment was made relative to their custody of the kids, and their shared custody arrangement. She must have trusted him with the kids, otherwise why would she have left them on a regular basis for her training? Why would she have left them in his care as recent as the eve of her death? That is the point I was trying (albeit unsuccesfull) make.
This whole situation is sickening for all...by all means the families, but also for the neighbors. Somewhere on some thread (ICR) Wallsburg Ct seems like Wisteria Lane...I have to say I agreed. The neighbors seem to have known so much "dirt" in that marriage...I would have been uncomfortable to say the least. Another poster also said there are 3 sides to a story (NC, BC and the truth). These two seem to have treated each other very badly...NC seemed to have a flare for the drama. Just one of the things that bothers me is that she allegedly cashed a check for $350 on the eve of telling her friends he didn't give her money and that was why she had to sell clothes at a garage sale. I'm sad to say his rebuttal affadivit, if true (all of which can be checked out), shoots down a lot of what her friends alleged. Again, 3 sides to a story.
I haven't posted a lot lately...to be honest, I had to get away from the "drama", and now I am so far behind and am confusing all the threads.
I can tell you - there are several untruths in Brad's affidavits. A
JMO
I think that the statements that can be checked out for truthfulness are there to lend veracity to the statements that cannot be verified.
Just because a statement can be verified does not mean it is true. Plus, those statements may be the forest hiding the trees of untruthfulness.
Maybe.
Respectfully,
RC
Fran, ITA, your post makes sense. I "get" the fear that an abused wife does feel. My comment was made relative to their custody of the kids, and their shared custody arrangement. She must have trusted him with the kids, otherwise why would she have left them on a regular basis for her training? Why would she have left them in his care as recent as the eve of her death? That is the point I was trying (albeit unsuccesfull) make.
This whole situation is sickening for all...by all means the families, but also for the neighbors. Somewhere on some thread (ICR) Wallsburg Ct seems like Wisteria Lane...I have to say I agreed. The neighbors seem to have known so much "dirt" in that marriage...I would have been uncomfortable to say the least. Another poster also said there are 3 sides to a story (NC, BC and the truth). These two seem to have treated each other very badly...NC seemed to have a flare for the drama. Just one of the things that bothers me is that she allegedly cashed a check for $350 on the eve of telling her friends he didn't give her money and that was why she had to sell clothes at a garage sale. I'm sad to say his rebuttal affadivit, if true (all of which can be checked out), shoots down a lot of what her friends alleged. Again, 3 sides to a story.
I haven't posted a lot lately...to be honest, I had to get away from the "drama", and now I am so far behind and am confusing all the threads.
IMHO, to understand how it works in an abusive relationship, either just emotional, or both emotional AND physical abuse,(which btw, emotional abuse is just one second short of physical abuse) you have to either suffered this same type of relationship personally, or know someone who has.
For someone who's never been in this type of situation, it's difficult to see how the abused could continue to live and love the abuser. SNIP
Many, many people, just..don't..get..it!
JMHO
fran
PS.....Please don't be fooled by denials of the alleged abuser. They're very, very good at hiding the truth. That's why they get away with it. NO ONE knows what goes on behind those closed doors other than the two people involved. And then there was one..........fran