The jury was shown an email from the accused to Ms McHugh on April 3, 2012.
It said: “I have given you a commitment and I intend to stick to it – I will be separated by 1 July.”
“It was my way of saying straight away… leave it to me, leave it at that,” Baden-Clay said.
But he said he had no intention of leaving his wife to be with Ms McHugh on that day.
The jury was shown another email from the accused to Ms McHugh on April 11, 2012.
“Again it’s my way of trying to placate her and calm her down. I consistently did that over the three years,” he said.
Baden-Clay said he did not see Ms McHugh for a good few weeks and wrote in the email she should “leave things to me now”.
“As a way of trying to say to her just calm down and leave things to me, if I’m going to leave Allison it’s my decision,” he said.
Baden-Clay said he and his wife Allison agreed to do a 15-minute venting session on Wednesday, April 18, 2012.
“We picked up takeaway coffees from McDonalds and went in the car up to Mt Coot-tha,” he said.
He said they did not get out of the car but parked on a downward slope in the car park.
Baden-Clay said his wife brought with her a journal in which she had written a number of questions to ask him.
“Things had been improving so it was okay, there was a little bit of tension I suppose because … I didn’t know what she was going to ask me but given the commitment I would answer anything she asked and she would listen,” he said.
The accused said the conversation lasted a little over 20 minutes but not long.
He said his wife did not finish all the questions she had and called time on the session.
Baden-Clay said his wife did most of the talking and he answered questions.
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