Thank you. I'm pretty upset at the cherry picking and misrepresentation of a number on that scale. The psychologist also reported he is not a narcissist nor does he have the markers of an abusive, angry, or psychopathic man. If he had tested low in an empathy area that would be a red flag. I also read this:
"Spouse abusers are relatively high on the Dominance (DOM) scale."
I haven't been able to read the report for myself yet, but, again, if the trained psychologists think he does not observed the traits of an abuser, I'm going to guess he scored low on this scale, as well.
Warmth is 35. This means OP measures significantly low on this test, well outside the normal range, and in fact this is the standout result in terms of the numbers, no cherry picking needed.
The report states: "Warmth (WRM) - The WRM scale provides a measure of the extent to which an individual is
empathic and engaging versus withdrawing, rejecting and mistrustful in interpersonal relationships. Item content involves being sociable, sympathetic, affectionate, and patient with others." BBM
The PAI manual states: "Assesses the extent to which a person is interested in supportive and
empathic personal relationships. A bipolar dimension, with a warm, outgoing style at the high end and a cold, rejecting style at the low end." BBM
From interviews, Scholtz report says OP was described as "argumentative", "controlling" and "suspicious".
Sounds like a recipe for conflict and arguments in a relationship to me, and that it could come seemingly from nowhere at any time. Remember, messages were read out in court where Reeva was arguing with OP about him being "cold and stand-offish".
Remember, there was also a huge argument where Reeva was most upset that she had planned to tell OP she loved him, but then felt unable due to his behaviour. We know she planned again to tell him for the first time, and can assume she would have been very sensitive to any cold or rejecting behaviour on that evening. Remember, this was Valentines day and for Reeva at least a new dawn in the relationship - this can be a time where even normal people don't know how to react or start raising doubts or suspicions or ask about things from the past before accepting the commitment, sounds like OP would be more prone to this and a potential conflict. Remember, Reeva had told OP about planning and then withholding her "I love you", who's to say she wasn't forced to do this again, and the valentines card is in fact evidence of OP's motive not the the other way round...
Very interestingly, Scholtz writes "His style of conflict resolution is to talk through the situation or remove himself from the situation". To me, the implication is clear - if he perceives that the other person is not talking things through rationally and to his liking, ie a typical argument, then he cannot cope and instead has to leave. Why, what happens if he cannot or does not leave? I think we have found that out already unfortunately.