Thank you for explaining why you feel so strongly about the issue. I appreciate your opinion and am not attempting to convince you that my opinion is more correct. If a person commits suicide while in some type of psychosis, I agree they are not acting selfishly. I believe fatally shooting yourself in front of the house where your young child is staying, on Christmas Eve, is selfish. I don't think LEK just said, "You know what? F*** it. I'll show that whole family. How dare he choose them over our marriage?" She was a lost soul. IMO, suicide is a choice (excluding psychosis). I will refrain from posting on this topic again because LEK's thread is about finding her true identity. I do look forward to your posts and will keep an open mind to learning something new.