Shae is the eldest, Polly is the middle and Jenny is the baby of the family. Was not in the household for much of when Jenny was growing up. Polly and Shae were roommates together in college.
Shae idolized her dad growing up. Everyone seemed to love him. Zest for life. Immersed himself in learning. a very engaged dad. showed up for events. big talker, gregarious.
Things changed later on after I grew up. Parents marriage was really good, drifted apart later in the marriage. as a family we good feel that things weren't good between parents. Dad was very strict. small town dad. Very demanding. Set high expectations. Kept us incredibly busy with singing voice acting and dance lessons. Mom had to be our taxi driver and work a full time job.
Worked for dad in the sixth grade cleaning his office. Then he started teaching her business, helped the staff.
He ran his office like a tight ship very organized. I learned a lot about character from him.
She is asked to describe his physical prowess growing up. Defense is wondering how far back we are gonna go? ten years, twenty years? Thirty?
Dad never had trouble driving a car, he was a multitasker and in total control. He would indeed read a book while driving down the highway. He never had an accident but she gets carsick to this day.
She recently found an email, dad is very private and not a complainer, doesn't share when things are going bad, doesn't like complainers didn't want to be one. had very little knowledge about dad's life once I was an adult. came across a letter recently from my dad - begins to cry - we are moving away from whatever that was.
Found out about collision by email w subject line I'm famous contained a link to "meetup" group that dad alleged was a witness description of the collision but she doesn't recall if she looked at the link.
now describes her own ski accident and having young children so her memory of that time period is very foggy.
putting up the email exhibit 102 already introduced
Shae asks that email addresses be redacted from the exhibits (more specifically probably her own)