MsBetsy
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I don't think anyone is saying her parents did not do any of those things.Really, do you think her parents didn't tell her a million times not to meet with "strangers" alone at night? Meet any online dates during the day in public places? Tell a friend where you're going? Don't go out with older men? Don't be alone with someone in a car you don't know well? Don't go out after midnight? We tell our kids these things over and over and yet they still make questionable decisions because that's what young people do. I don't even want to know what my boys have done at college. I specifically remember my younger son going to Mexico for spring break. I told him not to leave the resort under any circumstances. He assured me he wouldn't and told me he didn't. And then I'm at dinner with him and his buddy and they're talking about going to some ATM in town there and someone getting ripped off. So, in fact, he DID leave the resort, he DID go into town, he DID have some issue where someone tried to steal his friend's wallet. I never heard about any of this at the time. We tell our kids this stuff all the time - they don't listen. They think they know better. They feel indestructible.
I think the chief was just pointing out that sometimes tragedies like this give us an opportunity to have these types of discussions with our children. He did not intend to put any blame on the parents. Imo