theshadow45
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Bumping for Sandra, today is her birthday.
Can the thread title be edited please? She's Sandra. "Sandy" is creepily intimate as we are not friends or family.
Or he was simply a single parent working to take care of a child that he felt was better off with him instead of his ex-wife. And since men did not normally win custody in the late 70s nor ask for custody, he was likely the better parent for her anyway. Not every child responds to living with one parent with "I think I'll run away because I feel neglected."Now that things are adjusted, it appears more evident why her mom sent the newspaper note.
Her mom never saw her and wanted her to know she loved her, as any caring mother would do so. It appears dad also neglected her in some aspects, as leaving her alone and putting work over his own daughter.
It's likely the father attempted to file one, but everyone on here has encountered someone who had difficulties getting the police to follow through on their concerns, especially back then. If the police dismissed her as a runaway, it's possible it never went through officially.So good to see she was identified, but her case is still shrouded in so much mystery, and her parents passed away a long time ago and died never knowing where their daughter went? Did they wonder? Did they look for her? I am not 100% sure about the reporting system in the States, being European, although I obsessively lurk websleuths. Rest in peace sweet Sandy, you were finally given a name.
It's likely the father attempted to file one, but everyone on here has encountered someone who had difficulties getting the police to follow through on their concerns, especially back then. If the police dismissed her as a runaway, it's possible it never went through officially.
Yes! Most cases of teenagers reported missing in the 1970s were usually treated as runaways and most often were purged from the missing persons system once they turned 18 or older.I was thinking the same thing. Also possible that a report was filed, and then destroyed when Sandy turned 18. We've seen stories of that reported as well from back in those days. Since he's not here to defend himself, I don't think we can assume that dad didn't look for her or try to report her missing. It is possible that he didn't, but there's no way to know.
The thing is, there really aren't trailer parks up in Amboy. There is a campground up there where people do live in their trailers, but more often, people are living on a piece of land in a trailer or RV. I'm not certain about what was there back in 1977, but the area, even today, is really pretty rural. I'm curious to know where exactly they were living, especially in relation to where her body was found.
I'm thinking this had to be someone who knew the area pretty well, and I also think they perhaps knew when Sandy was alone.