Every friend I have who has gone through a divorce has had an episode or two of dating a "bad" boy ; someone who they never would have gone out with had they not been recently divorced.It seems to be linked to being newly single again. I wonder if Nancy had done that ? And maybe he didn't think it was over,and he also knew where she lived ? Who was her closest female friend ? Would she have confided something like this ? JMO A scary case, I hope she comes home soon.