How much truth is there to the thought the girls would rather see the movie about the girl who won the spelling bee, a female role model, and the boys would rather see a movie about a male role model? If I could see only one movie, I'd probably pick the Bee one myself.
Equal doesn't mean identical. Showing a successful military male role model to the boys, and a successful motivated scholar to the girls seems okay.
(I will add, about ten years ago my hometown newspaper ran an article about a field trip for 1st graders to the local hospital. It was to educate the kids on medical careers. The girls were dressed as nurses, and the boys were dressed as doctors. I'm not making this up. Unbelievable.)
Equal doesn't mean identical. Showing a successful military male role model to the boys, and a successful motivated scholar to the girls seems okay.
(I will add, about ten years ago my hometown newspaper ran an article about a field trip for 1st graders to the local hospital. It was to educate the kids on medical careers. The girls were dressed as nurses, and the boys were dressed as doctors. I'm not making this up. Unbelievable.)