Found Safe WI- Six-year-old RL has been found safe-Uncle Jordan Coyle is in custody

  • #21
And on whose word do we have it that the 6 year old "went looking for him"?

I hope the charges against her will have some teeth. Decides all on her own that she's a good judge of whether someone is a sex offender, when he's already been deemed one.

If I had a houseplant, I wouldn't leave it in her care.

JMO
 
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  • #22
But… we’ve discussed this, is it possible he actually is her dad?
It wouldn’t surprise me, with all the dysfunction in that household. JMO
 
  • #23
He could be her dad or not be her dad.
Her head could have been filled with these thoughts.

Either way, Chelsie Lehmann recently and deliberately moved her minor children in that home owned and occupied by Jordan Coyle.
 
  • #24
And on whose word do we have it that the 6 year old "went looking for him"?

I hope the charges against her will have done teeth. Decides all on her own that she's a good judge of whether someone is a sex offender, when he's already been deemed one.

If I had a houseplant, I wouldn't leave it in her care.

JMO
I don't understand it either. How in the world does a 6yo go seeking her dad/uncle away from the home? And WHY??

Did he have a nearby hiding spot from the law that the child knew about?

jmopinion
 
  • #25
And on whose word do we have it that the 6 year old "went looking for him"?

I hope the charges against her will have done teeth. Decides all on her own that she's a good judge of whether someone is a sex offender, when he's already been deemed one.

If I had a houseplant, I wouldn't leave it in her care.

JMO
Exactly!
 
  • #26
I don't understand it either. How in the world does a 6yo go seeking her dad/uncle away from the home? And WHY??

Did he have a nearby hiding spot from the law that the child knew about?

jmopinion
Earlier we heard something about her sneaking out of the house. I brushed it off as nonsense.

the young girl could have had thoughts an emotions put in her head.
 
  • #27
I'm glad LE is questioning CL's judgment and pressing charges.

In a relationship with a RSO, violating those terms essentially aiding and harboring a fugitive, while putting her child at risk, living in a house with him.

As Dr. Phil would say, I'd like to see the boyfriends she turned down.

She isn't apparently too picky. Which is her prerogative -- until she brings minor into that mess.

JMO
 
  • #28
Oh absolutely it doesn’t matter if he is her dad for charges but just a possible IMO additional facet of this case
 
  • #29
Earlier we heard something about her sneaking out of the house. I brushed it off as nonsense.

the young girl could have had thoughts an emotions put in her head.
Where would she have access to go? And how would she know to find that place on her own? If this is true (?), he couldn't have been far from the home and she likely had "sought him out" previously to know the way, imo.

Did he have a "fun" place to visit with games, etc?

Or was she sent to him? idk

jmopinion
 
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Where would she have access to go? And how would she know to find that place on her own? If this is true (?), he couldn't have been far from the home and she likely had "sought him out" previously to know the way, imo.

Did he have a "fun" place to visit with games, etc?

Or was she sent to him? idk

jmopinion
And if she left to go find him, she clearly found him since they were found together. If he truly had altruistic intentions towards her, why didn’t he take her home? You can’t tell me that if he’s this caring “uncle/dad” that he would think it would be ok for a 6 year old to walk up to where he is all alone (because I doubt he was just in the backyard - unless maybe he was and whoever told this story about her looking for him was technically telling the truth but omitting key details…hmmm), and it would be a good idea that she just hang out with him in the woods for a few days. Give me a break.

(I’m sorry, that was one really long run-on sentence in the middle of the paragraph but it all belonged together in my mind 😆)

Did she go to school? Her age is right on that edge where it may be that she wasn’t in kindergarten yet. If so, any caring “uncle/dad” would realize a child should be in school 🤔
 
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I...buh...guh...WHAT IN THE BLUE HADES IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE??? That's all I can say.
The only explanation I can find is generational sexual abuse, as it was going in the family for so long (with the mom being a victim.at some point too) that every family member normalised it to the horrifying extent.
 
  • #35
The only explanation I can find is generational sexual abuse, as it was going in the family for so long (with the mom being a victim.at some point too) that every family member normalised it to the horrifying extent.
I agree. I'm wondering if the 6yo has no idea what is wrong and why her dad/uncle and mom are in trouble - because it's just how they all live. But, the adults knew it was wrong enough to hide info from LE even as they facilitated the situation in the first place.

And that makes me wonder what was different about this day that they reporting the missing child. Something must have happened that they knew about beyond "she went looking for him." If she normally did that, why would they worry about where she was? IDK.

jmopinion
 
  • #36
I agree. I'm wondering if the 6yo has no idea what is wrong and why her dad/uncle and mom are in trouble - because it's just how they all live. But, the adults knew it was wrong enough to hide info from LE even as they facilitated the situation in the first place.

And that makes me wonder what was different about this day that they reporting the missing child. Something must have happened that they knew about beyond "she went looking for him." If she normally did that, why would they worry about where she was? IDK.

jmopinion
I wonder if Grandma reported her missing before mom was able to tell her not to?
 
  • #37
I wonder if Grandma reported her missing before mom was able to tell her not to?
It bugs me when we don't have enough details in the timeline. I'd like to know what everyone was doing that entire afternoon. jmo
 
  • #38
It bugs me when we don't have enough details in the timeline. I'd like to know what everyone was doing that entire afternoon. jmo
It's very strange how all this went down.
 
  • #39
But… we’ve discussed this, is it possible he actually is her dad?
Yes, quite possible uncle is really bio-dad. ... Although that wouldn't negate the possibility that there was also inappropriateness going on. IMO
 
  • #40
Moo...has it been determined that there was sexual abuse of child?...moo
 

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