I'm not sure exactly how a person could go about illegally collecting disability. There's not some guy in a long fur trimmed coat standing on the street corner passing out disability checks in Florida, is there? If so, I'm on my way. I totally agree, it has not been confirmed in any way that Cindy is collecting disability - but that fact hasn't prevented the thousands of posts attacking her for abusing it. It is a known fact that disability is not easy to get. Someone in the public eye who is watched and tattled on constantly would have an even more difficult time getting it without irrefutable proof of eligibility.
The way I see it, I can be all perclempt over George and Cindy taking a few days for themselves to escape the madness, or I can just not care what they do so long as it doesn't affect me. People take trips. George and Cindy are people. Ergo, George and Cindy take trips. So?
If people are not jealous of the vacations and "perks" George and Cindy have been getting, they sure are doing a great job pretending to be. I read a lot of, "
I don't get to go on vacation.....
I don't get to drive a new car.....
I don't accessorize (that one kills me :floorlaugh
. It sure sounds like jealousy. Or maybe it's just that people want George and Cindy to suffer horribly, never know a happy moment and live like paupers because what their daughter has done. I'd rather believe it's jealousy.
You assume that any friends of George and Cindy are victimized by them. Why? I assume that anyone who personally knows George and Cindy, as opposed to strangers who unfairly judge, twist, and criticize their every sneeze, has a fair idea of who they are. (Think how few people don't truly know their spouses). I do not in any way think I "know" George and Cindy - which is why I don't judge them so harshly. I do know that people under intense stress and pressure can make mistakes. Throw in some grief and unreasonable, unrelenting hatred from the public - it's no wonder to me at all that the A's have become defensive and combative. They're being attacked on all fronts while also trying to learn to accept the horrible truth that their very own daughter committed the crime of taking their beloved grandchild's life. It's amazing they've survived it, IMO. There is a reason Cindy did qualify for disability at some point - I assume it would be because of emotional issues resulting from Caylee's death. Why do we attack a woman with emotional issues for displaying symptoms of her illness? I'm glad no one blamed me for coughing when I was in ICU all last week with pneumonia and atrial fibrillation.
"Stress of a trial" is exactly the words I meant to use. Obviously Caylee's death was MORE stressful, but that doesn't take away from the stress of the trial, it adds to it. It's all one big package. Unfortunately, there is no cosmic law that limits stressful incidents to one per person.
Thank you for the compliment. Even if we don't agree, it's nice that we can respect and fairly consider each other's opinions.