Rougelatete
Verified Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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I have the same pink chucks! Mud and all.
A really awesome thing, to me, is that as heartbreaking as the situation is, Sky's life has already left the world a better place. The love and compassion he brings out in so, so many, evidenced in the pictures and stories and on these boards... I can only hope to do a fraction of that in my lifetime, you know? It would be a beautiful thing, to see him grow up, and old, and to remember all the good he brought out in strangers. But it is a beautiful thing, now, to see, just the same, and I am grateful for that.
I think the other positive that has come from this case is that fathers are getting more credence in the public eye (and, hopefully, the legal realm as well). It's beyond a travesty what happened to Solomon in the court system and I know that his story has shed light on the problem of automatically believing that women are always the victims of domestic violence and that men never are -- and in believing that mothers are always the most fit parent and fathers are not. I am sure that Solomon would give anything to have his son back but I hope it helps for him to know that Sky made grand changes in his little life -- things that most adults would never accomplish.