MeoW333
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He has one brother but he is deceased.
I do think she would have told us ESPECIALLY if she didn't like him or felt like he was pushing the issue, ie, the guy I previously posted about. There was nothing wrong w/ him, I don't even think he was pushy, she just wanted nothing to do w/ having a man in her life right now. And she told us ALL about him.
If there was something she thought was strange, out of the ordinary, scary, whatever...she told us about it. I'm thinking back now to times that she would call and say, "You know, I heard a strange noise last night, I wonder what that could have been?" and wondering if this guy had ever been around her house before??? At the time, I just wrote it off to all the strange noises you might hear at night, but now I don't know. But if she told me about strange noises, I'm just sure she would have told me about a guy bothering her.
It seems your mother had good reason to be cautious. When i recall what you mentioned, the time your father took the backhoe and made a big trench so that your mother and his elderly mother couldn't get out the driveways.. it's very scary. Not only would it had been horrible had they needed to get out or have vehicles in, in case of emergency, it also seems he did such a thing for control over your mother. That he was very controlling of her.
Did your mother even mention in detail what the strange noises sounded like? I'm wondering if your father stalked her after she moved out.. It sounds like he was very controlling of her, please correct me if i am wrong. I wonder how controlling he is of his new wife? What happens when he thinks he is "losing control" of things he formerly thought he had control of (whether or not he really did have control, in his mind, possibly he may have thought he did or wanted to).
I hope this post makes sense, please let me know if i need to explain better here..