The more I think about this whole thing, tonight I think MS is deranged, lacking something that he never matured mentally past a teenager in regards to sex. Yes I know many women are just as sexual active, and imaginative. But documenting the O's and acts isn't normal adult behavior in my circle of life. As I stated before I did date a man many years my senior and he did document stuff, and was manipulative, etc much like MS!!! However, as an adult female now, I don't know of anyone that does this stuff. It just isn't normal!
I think openly fantasizing was a something new to them both, and kept the fires burning so to speak. It was exciting, and sexually arousing to them both. At some point, the fantasy talk started to veer into the 'maybe' stage of being reality. The threshold was entered, and became reality with female partners. That was OK as long as both knew what was going on, and though they had some hiccups to iron out concerning getting emotionally attached to their female third wheel, they were both open to having a third wheel. Then TS had an encounter with a male K that really ticked MS off. He was NOT having any part of that! Didn't want her flirting or anything with K! Men were to be a part of the fantasy talk ONLY! Up until then, if there was anything going on sexually between CWW and MS, I hadn't seen it mentioned, keeping in mind that LOTS are missing in these documents. It does seem that the progression went into an open marriage with swinging partners. Specifically they were meeting at a resort and enjoying their sex life. I think jealousy was getting the best of MS though.
I think there were multiple motives here. One, MS was enjoying being in open relationships and having multiple partners. Two he was jealous of other men being able to get TS satisfied when often there was no orgasm with oral, or penetration sex between TS and MS. Three, that huge life insurance money taunting a sinking ship. They were so far in debt, I don't know how they would have been able to continue without filing bankrupt or MS taking on a paying job outside of office manager. Fourth, MS was aware that TS was seeing the financial situation and it seemed that TS was finally opening her eyes, or feed up enough to take action. Fifth, if MS thought TS was even thinking of leaving him, no way, no how was he going to let that happen! He couldn't afford for TS to cut him off financially, emotionally or physically. His ego wouldn't allow, nor would he want to lose that status he felt they had. Sixth, there may well be things TS was finding out about that MS didn't want her knowing concerning the business practice. Seventh, I feel TS was getting emotionally and physically attached to someone else. I don't know why, I haven't read anything specific in the bates that I recall saying as much, only the K that was someone she had known for awhile, she did seem to have feelings for him, but I don't know if he's married, or what and not going to sleuth to find out.
IIRC, there were several entries made about 'argument with T', those entries were redacted from our view. Eventually I assume we'll hear what those entries were. God I hope this trial doesn't turn into a Jodi Arias circus! I hope for the kids sake that most of these details aren't brought into the trial. I think being able to say it was an open marriage would be enough without sharing the details of every encounter!
I still wonder about the entry concerning the multiple Os being new to the both of them, they didn't know why it was happening but were going to enjoy them. Still thinking meth or something similar was involved there. Weed isn't going to do that IMO. Age surely didn't cause it. Doubtful any of the supplements would have had that effect or they would have sold enough to be billionaires! Men would have been lining up to buy that!! IMO!
