OneLostGrl
I'm going against the grain- I'm going sane
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I agree with you in large part, capps. But when a rule is stupid or evil, we need to rebel against it and change it. This rule is stupid and needs to be changed.
So many rules and laws and policies are stupid and evil and need to be changed but until they are we must follow them and encourage our children to do the same. Ya know the rule I always hated the most in school? Having to raise your hand, wait to be called on (or in some cases, have your raised hand be ignored by teachers) and then have to ask permission to use
the restroom. uhh Dude, I gotta pee and your gonna tell me I can't? haha yeah right. I had a mother who told me "don't ask,
just go-tell 'em your going to the bathroom and go". Another rule I remember hating was when we went to the nurses office if you didn't have a temp or a stomach bug she wouldn't send you home. So I complained about that stupid rule too, it was stupid- who was she to tell me cuz I didn't have a temp that I'm not sick? So my mom backed me on that too- told the nurse, "You call me if my child comes to the nurse and wants to come home, temp or not!"
Then I had teachers who gave too much homework, which was also stupid and evil. I did work all day at school, why did I need to do another 1 1/2 or 2 hours of work once I got home? So I stopped doing homework, 'course I'm sure you probably figured out by now, my mom backed me on that too! Started to fight the school about the amount of work they sent kids home with. Same went for detentions for "stupid" reasons, like coming to school 10 minutes tardy but being held after school for 40 minutes. and on and on.. ending with swearing at the principle and having mom back me on that too. What I learned was that I didn't have to follow the same rules as everyone else did.. that the rules did not apply to me. When in reality they soon would and it would have been best for me to learn that then while I was still a child. Woulda saved me a lot of trouble!
Life is not fair- we have to deal with people we will dislike and rules we disagree with and it's best we teach our kids that now, while they are young so they can be all adapted to the stupidity of it all by the time they are adults and have to follow rules of employers and law enforcement. I agree about the hair thing- big friggin' deal, it's just hair and kids need to be able to express who they are and try out different things. My son did the long hair phase and now has those big a$$ holes in his ear (gauges?!) and I hate 'em but it's about finding out who they are and I support that 100%! But IMO the most important thing our children need to find out is that rules are there for a reason and until we can go about changing them properly we must follow them.
I love my mom to death for always backing me with school and stuff but it didn't teach me anything.