Hello everyone, I am Mitch's biological father. I was contacted by the Paulding County Sheriff's office only yesterday (10-16-12) and made aware of this situation. I am beyond words as I am sure everyone here can only imagine. To date I only know what I have been able to search and find, so many here probably still know more than I do. No one has heard from me yet, so maybe my showing here will help your efforts. Below I will share with all of you what I had posted privately on my own wall...
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Writing this right now has to be the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, please bare with me this isn't easy. Roughly 15 years ago I came home from work one day to find an empty house, the woman (Sheila Barnes as I knew her) I had been with for roughly 6 years, and our 3 year old son, "Mitch" were gone, no note, no real sign left that they had ever even been there. She had done this before, often, in the 6 years I knew her, always coming back 2-3 weeks later. This time in particular was different, they were never seen or heard from again.
Many of you reading this may know only 1 thing about me, my sons Rowen and Aidan and how close we are, how much I love them, how much they love me. We do everything together, my home is so filled with toys there isn't even room here for my own stuff, literally. You see the pictures here of the time we spend together, the things we do, and this is only a small portion of it all.
From his birth 18 years ago till he was 3 years old when I last seen him, my son Mitch and I were also insuperable in this same exact way. Unlike Rowen and Aidan, Mitch had a mother who expressed no interest in him. This surprised me that she even took him with her when she disappeared, I doubt I will ever know why she didn't just leave him with me. As a non wed father, and no one knowing where she had gone with my son, I had no legal action I could take. 15 years ago we didn't have the internet like it is today to help search for them. 15 years later with the internet what it is I had still been searching and unable to ever locate him. I had hired a Private Investigator at one time, paid for multiple online people searches, always leading me to a dead end, and address or phone number she no longer lived at, or possibly never even lived at. For 15 years I have searched for my son in vain. I can't even put into words what his being taken from me did to me emotionally. All I've thought over these years is how it must have felt to that little boy to have just been taken from his daddy who he loved so much, and at an age where he was too young to even understand what happened to his daddy.
Yesterday I was contacted by a Detective in Georgia, they had found my son after all these years. This should have been good news, I have to stop here though, I have been throwing up from disgust, and crying to the point my eyes are almost swollen shut right now upon learning of the horrific conditions and levels of abuse my poor son has endured over the past 15 years of his life away from me and in the hands of his own mother and this absolute monster she had married after leaving me.