Wrinkles
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StMarysMead, most upsetting to me was the text that Sheri sent:
>>"Chris wants a divorce. A couple days ago he said me & my kids are in the way of his job."<<
Texts are generally short and to the point, so people are not necessarily exact about their wording. Some people are not necessarily exact at anyrate, it is only texting afterall -- it is not the witness stand.
Was Sheri indicating that Chris referred to the children as "Sheri's kids" or "you and your kids" -- as opposed to "you and our kids" (or you and our children). Did he separate himself from relationship with them as father when he was speaking with her in anger and wanting a divorce? Is it possible that he only separated himself from the older child, Sheri was pregnant with Garrett before they married. Did Chris resent Sheri and Garrett?
Some of the reporters have mentioned that Chris seemed to "wince" or respond in some seemingly "touched" kind of way when Gavin was mentioned, or a picture of him shown. I have to wonder if he was more attached to Gavin? Or is it because Gavin was the one for whom it was not just a matter of quietly slipping in and murdering, maybe there was some resistance and so Chris is remembering that? Or maybe it is that Chris was not going to take the children's lives, but one of the children being witness dictated that he would have to take their life, and well, he might as well take both as one? I know, particularly sick thinking but what well person murders?
Bottomline, did Chris reference the children as belonging to Sheri, and had he disassociated himself from them. It speaks to more to his premeditation, he disassociates himself in preparing for his plan. It also speaks more to his motive in killing them. He had disowned them mentally, they were Sheri's kids. He was not going to let some world view on responsibility and child support muck up his life, those weren't his "kids" anymore.
Which makes me think... I'm going to bet that Chris DID, at some point, go to consult with a divorce attorney or someone who "knew about divorce, costs etc." My guess would be that he did that some time in Nov or early December of 2008, as he was already talking about leaving Sheri then and Tara had already "changed" his life. Now then, he might have done it just after that time when someone might have said to him, "Do you know what you are getting into by leaving your wife and forcing a divorce?"
My bet is that someone -- maybe his brother -- eventually educated Chris as to the cost of an attorney, a divorce battle, the Illinois law in splitting property (whether or not someone's name is on the papers or not), alimony and child support.
OH WOW! Yeah... I bet Chris said, "hey, the house is in my name..." and he heard, "That doesn't matter." WHICH REMINDS ME! If Tara could call and masquerade for Sheri with the Disney stuff, did she also do that with the house paperwork stuff? Is that the reason that point about Disney was brought up? Is that why we "didn't hear" a "Did you masquerade as Sheri to have her name taken off the house paperwork in November? Did you sign for her, forge her name for that paperwork?"
Is it possible that LE said, "You know, we have a witness that identified you as coming in and signing that paper. We have had a hand writing analyst check out your writing and well then there is your fingerprints. Do you know how much it will cost you to defend yourself in a forgery case, and how long you could go to jail for that? Now, didn't you want to help us by being a witness for the prosecution?"
If Tara did sign that paper, or if she was a part of that, it could have meant, could mean big trouble for her on that count AND might have fit her into a nice tight slot as accessory to the crime? I'd say there is a real good reason that Tara is a prosecution witness and it isn't because she wanted to be, but perhaps because testifying for them has also kept her out of a WHOLE flock of other trouble. LE wants to make SURE they get Chris on this, he did the crime. Maybe they gave Tara a bit of a deal to make sure that she did her part to help them get Chris, while she got to save her little hiney.
StMarysMead, most upsetting to me was the text that Sheri sent:
>>"Chris wants a divorce. A couple days ago he said me & my kids are in the way of his job."<<
Texts are generally short and to the point, so people are not necessarily exact about their wording. Some people are not necessarily exact at anyrate, it is only texting afterall -- it is not the witness stand.
Was Sheri indicating that Chris referred to the children as "Sheri's kids" or "you and your kids" -- as opposed to "you and our kids" (or you and our children). Did he separate himself from relationship with them as father when he was speaking with her in anger and wanting a divorce? Is it possible that he only separated himself from the older child, Sheri was pregnant with Garrett before they married. Did Chris resent Sheri and Garrett?
Some of the reporters have mentioned that Chris seemed to "wince" or respond in some seemingly "touched" kind of way when Gavin was mentioned, or a picture of him shown. I have to wonder if he was more attached to Gavin? Or is it because Gavin was the one for whom it was not just a matter of quietly slipping in and murdering, maybe there was some resistance and so Chris is remembering that? Or maybe it is that Chris was not going to take the children's lives, but one of the children being witness dictated that he would have to take their life, and well, he might as well take both as one? I know, particularly sick thinking but what well person murders?
Bottomline, did Chris reference the children as belonging to Sheri, and had he disassociated himself from them. It speaks to more to his premeditation, he disassociates himself in preparing for his plan. It also speaks more to his motive in killing them. He had disowned them mentally, they were Sheri's kids. He was not going to let some world view on responsibility and child support muck up his life, those weren't his "kids" anymore.
Which makes me think... I'm going to bet that Chris DID, at some point, go to consult with a divorce attorney or someone who "knew about divorce, costs etc." My guess would be that he did that some time in Nov or early December of 2008, as he was already talking about leaving Sheri then and Tara had already "changed" his life. Now then, he might have done it just after that time when someone might have said to him, "Do you know what you are getting into by leaving your wife and forcing a divorce?"
My bet is that someone -- maybe his brother -- eventually educated Chris as to the cost of an attorney, a divorce battle, the Illinois law in splitting property (whether or not someone's name is on the papers or not), alimony and child support.
OH WOW! Yeah... I bet Chris said, "hey, the house is in my name..." and he heard, "That doesn't matter." WHICH REMINDS ME! If Tara could call and masquerade for Sheri with the Disney stuff, did she also do that with the house paperwork stuff? Is that the reason that point about Disney was brought up? Is that why we "didn't hear" a "Did you masquerade as Sheri to have her name taken off the house paperwork in November? Did you sign for her, forge her name for that paperwork?"
Is it possible that LE said, "You know, we have a witness that identified you as coming in and signing that paper. We have had a hand writing analyst check out your writing and well then there is your fingerprints. Do you know how much it will cost you to defend yourself in a forgery case, and how long you could go to jail for that? Now, didn't you want to help us by being a witness for the prosecution?"
If Tara did sign that paper, or if she was a part of that, it could have meant, could mean big trouble for her on that count AND might have fit her into a nice tight slot as accessory to the crime? I'd say there is a real good reason that Tara is a prosecution witness and it isn't because she wanted to be, but perhaps because testifying for them has also kept her out of a WHOLE flock of other trouble. LE wants to make SURE they get Chris on this, he did the crime. Maybe they gave Tara a bit of a deal to make sure that she did her part to help them get Chris, while she got to save her little hiney.