Here's what I don't get about a narcissistic personality, how can they have that me, me, me thing and feel anger if they don't feel for other people or have remorse?
I hope someone understands what I'm trying to ask.
Narcissists require (to survive) what is called "narcissistic feed". It's like food or oxygen to us.
Narcissistic feed is people adoring them, people telling them how wonderful they are, so it is all about ME, ME, ME. The anger they feel is against someone who has wronged them(or the perceive to have harmed them), they don't have feelings about other people or their hardships or problems.
They are also totally paranoid & think everyone thinks like them & is out to get them.
Any tears they shed, unless it is for themselves, is a learned behavior. Narc's can learn to act like "normal" people from observing when it is the right time to show this or that emotion, but it's all fake.
Deep down, narcissists actually loathe themselves & they need outside gratification to keep convincing themselves how wonderful they are. They can also have multiple personalities & can actually blame one of the other personalities for the wrong doing.
It is a total fantasy world that they live in, in their mind.
They will discard anyone who stops giving them that narcissistic feed, like yesterdays trash.
You see how ICA has turned on her parents? That is because they are not giving her the narc. feed.
As for Caley, she got all the attention from ICA's parents, she took over the spotlight & my guess is ICA could not stand it, she wanted it back.
She see's herself as a celebrity now & can't understand why her parents & everyone else does not.
I will also tell you this, she is LOVING being in court. Look at all this attention just for HER.
She does not believe she will be found guilty, as narcissists feel they are above the law, can rationalize any wrong they have done & they believe that everyone else thinks like they do.
Don't try to analyze their mind, it's like trying to figure out a totally insane person.
That is basically what we are dealing with.
Hope this helps answer your question.